Ok im confused, split up with my girl and we chat on the phone. somedays she wont call me but other days she will send me 1 text or 2 and a call. do you think she still likes me or what? she sometimes ignores my text or call but when i ask her she says she has been busy? too bust to send a text, takes 3 mins? I dont get it surely if she didnt like me or want anything she would ignore me completely?
2007-06-25 05:00:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment ➔ Other - Careers & Employment
Soemtimes it is just isn't "all about me", dear. She may want to be friends??
2007-06-25 05:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by CAT 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a real informative question. What age, did you date, if so how long. It seems like you may want something a little more than she does. I dont know what caused the split up but it might have been worth it. theres a lot out there if you look right
2007-06-25 05:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by andyjtaylor2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing games with you. The longer you make yourself available to her the more she will use you. If she knows that she can call you whenever she needs or wants something (even just talking) you will be there for her... than she will continue to do so. If you start not being available she will get the hint. Dont let her use you that way.
2007-06-25 05:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by shadowsthathunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that she likes having you on a string. Some girls like to know that an ex still wants them even though they dont want to be with you anymore.
Girls can play pretty mean games when they are insecure aboout themselves. I bet if you are not as available to her as you have been, that she would start calling you a lot more.
When people seem unavailable it can make them seem much more attractive. I think you should try to forget her...date other people and try to move on.
2007-06-25 05:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by Daisyhill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Anonymous,
Maybe you are annoying and that she does not have the time to respond to every text message.
Also, maybe she wants to be friends but not in a relationship. A friend does ont respond to every text and a call.
She could be telling the truth and be busy.
2007-06-25 05:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by MLeinart7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's stringing you along so that she has someone to fall back on if she wants some on Saturday night and all of the people she really likes are busy.
Look at the bright side. At least she gives you some attention.
2007-06-25 05:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cant answer since you didnt say what youve been talking about. Start looking for a new girl. Dont call your ex first, let her call you. make her chase you. If she wants you, she will come to you. be nice to her when you see her, but dont persue her. trust me, i know women. You gotta seem happy and have a good time though, dont mope around.
2007-06-25 05:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by Gregg L (JPA) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants you when its convenient for her! Which is not good for you, so do not reply or send her messages anymore and move on with your life. She has you thinking theres still hope, and thats just mind games. Its all or nothin....... Do what makes you happy, not confused! Dont let her play with you like that...
2007-06-25 05:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playin hard to get with you and to be honest she is calling you when she is bored and has nothing else to do. So if i were you i would ignore her text and calls when she sends you them and move on with your life bc she is playin with your mind. She loves the attention she is getting from you.
2007-06-25 05:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to engage yourself in something! you seem to needy. don't respond to her texts right away and it will seem like your not sitting around waiting for her to text. so did you split cause you guys dislike eachother or have grown apart? cause if you split and she just wants to be friends that doesn't mean everytime she calls she likes you again. it means you guys are friends.
2007-06-25 05:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by redjedi182 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She prolly likes you but not in the way you want her to. It's hard to say but that's what it sounds like to me. Sounds like she's just looking for a friend. Good luck to you and I hope that you find happiness.
2007-06-25 05:05:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋