i really want another baby and when me and my fella are having sex he says he does too but as soon as im out he txts sayin he isnt ready and doesnt want another for about 2yrs. what is he tryin to tell me?
2007-06-25 04:21:18 · 20 answers · asked by Rach 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I think he is kinda facing reality a bit and knowing that another baby is a bigger responsibility than the first. He still wants one, no doubt he just wants more accomplishment. like maybe a house, a better car, etc. Don't lose hope
2007-06-25 18:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by 1chance 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to tell you he doesn't want a baby for another 2 years! During sex a guy with say anything. That is NOT the time to discuss the serious issue of bringing another child into the world. He also doesn't seem to be able to say this to your face which does not bode well for the relationship the two of you have. Try discussing it with him face to face when you are NOT sexually intimate. If either of you can't discuss it then you shouldn't have another child yet. Communication between parents is key. I'm not sure why you would discuss it during sex anyway. Having what should be a serious discussion during sex seems odd to me. Are you trying to get him to say yes during sex because you know he isn't really ready? Using sex in this manner is just wrong. But then waiting to text you when your gone is wrong too, both of you need to re evaluate your communication in the relationship as you both sound quite immature. I'm sorry but that is how it seems to me.....
2007-06-25 12:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is saying he wants a baby to get sex when he gets it then he changes his mind about the baby.. would you really want another baby with him when he acts that way !
2007-06-26 04:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by Autism's Beautiful Face 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He really does want a baby, but at this time, he feels that he isn't ready. You guys need to seriously sit down and talk about this, don't just say things in the heat of the moment. Also, if you just had a baby, wait awhile and enjoy being with the one you have now. Also, I told one of my friends who said she wanted another one after she just had her second, and I told her to wait until this one can tie his shoes (sure enough, he's almost two and she's due like anyday now!).
But please make sure this is both what you really want. And congradulations early if it turns up you are eventually pregnant ;-)
2007-06-25 11:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by The only good blu is a dead blu! 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He is lieing to you, sorry but thats what he is saying, one minute he wants one, the next minute he dont, what he is really saying is that he dont want a baby or is not ready to have another baby!! You need to talk to him and ask him just what he really wants and how he feels about it!!
2007-06-25 11:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by mickey_112404 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that he just says he wants baby so he knows he will get laid. And he remembers he said that he tries to cover it up by saying lets wait. You just need to be blunt and ask him what he really wants. Hope it turns out for the best!
2007-06-25 11:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by plum_snake 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he is saying that he wants to f**k but not have a baby right now
remember its not just for making babies its for pleasure ..... never forget that
maybe he has a lot of pressure and he doesn't need the stress of having another child ....
just be happy that you have one and that you can spend everyday with that special child of yours
alot of other women can't even have children ( me )
well have a wonderful day
2007-06-25 11:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Emily 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, I'd be really wary of anyone that says they want a baby when they're having sex with you and then waits til you're out to text you that he doesn't....weird!
2007-06-25 11:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by lab2lal 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ask him to be honest about it sit down and have a good chat he mite not want a baby yet but that does not mean that he does not want you you both need to talk about this a baby needs a lot of looking after
2007-06-25 11:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by robert p 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you aren't using birth control then he's telling you he's stupid.
If you are using birth control then he's telling you that he'll say anything for sex.
Listen to him when you aren't having sex, he doesn't want a baby.
2007-06-25 11:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋