If a potential girlfriend was always online when u wanted and liked to call and junk like that....would u get bored or feel shes too "available"?
2007-06-24 16:45:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some guys need all the atention they can get and some guys want what they cant have or are all about the chace. you should be able to tell. also put yourself in his shoes could u be anoying him?
2007-06-24 16:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by herbtoker_420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say YES! I think women have to hold a certain mystique to themselves and be a bit of a tease. Grant the guy just enough affection to keep us interested and remember you have to find the right balance. If you're always available when we want, ready to do something at a moment's notice constantly, and you will always cave in to what "I" want, I personally think I will grow bored of you very quickly. I will tell you that if you truly act this way all of the time, you are setting yourself up to get used.
You have a big pool of men to choose from (about 49% of the world), why are you sitting on your computer thinking about just one? I know you have a whole world of us out there and if you're at home right now and he isn't trying to make you the center of his world, you deserve better. :)
2007-06-24 23:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by peter_swytch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The reason is when u are always available for last minute call that means he doesn't has to plan. That means they don't have to think about u constantly and put into effort. And won't get the chance to look forward to see you or talk to u. The looking forward thing is really important in dating because they means you have to remember someone constantly. Good luck
2007-06-25 00:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by My Dear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like a challenge so sometimes not being available makes them work harder however if u r in a serious relationship where u know the guy loves u then there is no such thing as too available
2007-06-24 23:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by lexi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if I liked her. But, be careful of the calling thing, it's very easy to go overboard on, and when you do you seem desperate and stalkerish. Just remember to give him some space.
2007-06-24 23:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by to_stop_pre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get bored, though if she called every five minutes to check up on me I would get a little ticked.
2007-06-24 23:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by Musically Minded 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy.. l'm a lesb. And yes, I'd get bored.
2007-06-24 23:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a such thing as too much . so b careful they need alil space
2007-06-24 23:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was just phone chit chat and no sex involved, then i would become very bored and prolly end up dumping you after i had sex with u.
2007-06-24 23:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by superisa2001lbs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuhh well i wouldnt i used to do that but it was cause i just wanted to move it up a little and have sex
2007-06-24 23:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by abbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋