My girlfriend doesnt pay attention to me.what should I do?

Question

she laughs with other guys more than she laughs with me.I think our relations are freezon,what can I do to make it better.I hate when she laughs with other boys,what can I do for my feeling,I think I am really jelous,is there any way to change myself.

Answer 1

Try asking your gf why.If she doesn't seem interested in giving you any act right then give her the boot. If you have jealousy issues then work on it before you enter the next relationship.

Answer 2

Jealousy can be a very dangerous thing. Just make sure you don't respond in an immature manner, like flirting to get back at her or ignoring her...this will just make things worse.

I don't know the whole situation, so it's hard to pinpoint the problem. Do you pay a lot of attention to her? Do you make an effort to do things she likes or make her feel special? I know for awhile I fellt neglected from my boyfriend, so I spent a lot of time with my other friends, which included guys because I wasn't getting what I wanted from him, so I got it somewhere else. Eventually things got better because we talked things out. Make sure you COMMUNICATE. Ask her how she feels about the relationship and ask her if there is anything she wants to change in the RELATIONSHIP and not change YOU.

It could also be all in your head. Maybe she really is just friends with those guys. I know it's hard to watch your significant other have a good time with the opposite sex, trust me, i've been there, but acting jealous and lashing out isn't going to solve much. Acting mature about it and accepting it will most likely impress her.

If she is doing more than laughing, a.k.a major flirting, then maybe it's time to move on and be with someone who will appreciate you more =)

Hope I could help a little!

Answer 3

I have three things to say to you...... Firstly, you're in a crowd, what type of attention do you need? She has to divide her time and attention with you and her friends. Be content she gives her all to you alone, and not someone else! Secondly, a week! That's not very long to be complaining this early in the relationship. Give some time, and anyway when she's with her friends, go hang out with your friends. Cut the leash..... Thirdly, she's in charge? Most men like that sort of relationship. The chick taking the intuitive step. Try stepping back and letting her take the lead. You might like it!!!

Answer 4

Be funnier or get a new girlfriend. There are two forms of jealousy, possessiveness and enviousness. You sound like you've got a little of both. She's your girl and you don't want her having fun with anyone but you and you feel inferior to these other guys that get a laugh out of her. Some people are funny and others aren't (it sounds like you are in the latter category). She may be getting a chuckle out of someone else, that doesn't mean she wants them sexually or romantically (although I have to say chicks do like a dude with a sense of humor). Good luck.

Answer 5

If you become completely absorbed in jealousy and desperation (not saying that you don't have cause) you won't be able to relax and be yourself- the person who she liked to begin with. Plan some outings with just you and her away from the world so that you can relax and be just the two of you. Revisit old places that mean something to you both. If the situation is really bothering you that much, maybe you should talk to her about it. Tell her that you're concerned that your relationship isn't as close as it used to be. Good luck, I hope everything works out!

Answer 6

I think u r expecting bit more from ur relationship
she has her own life and she is leading it the way she want

it doesn't mean she doesn't like u anymore.....
she is in love with u.....
try to be normal and meet her when u both r alone.....
try to crack jokes and stay near to her heart.....

jealousy is the part of human nature...... but make sure it should not come in between u......

Answer 7

well, i think the fact that your girlfriend already has some of that flirty going on to other guys, and comon, she's your girlfriend, she has to be loyal to you, you know, and therefore you either should talk straight of this to her and see if it's going to change or, since you already don't have to deserve this crap, should find a new relationship. i sincerely think that's the right thing to do.
hope this helps.

Answer 8

she's probably interested in meeting other people. That's how I felt. I just wanted to meet people and I only got along with guys for some reason. I never intended to cheap on my bf but I just wanted to meet other people.

Answer 9

try to relax around her and understand that she likes u, not them. shes just laughing with them not cuz she likes them, but cuz they are funny. lol. dont worry about it. my boyfriend is actually the same way. i mean we laugh together, but i kinda laugh at other guys more sometimes. idk why its like that, but hes just not used to it i guess. he will get more comfortable and so will u. try making her laugh sometimes. when you find yourself in that situation, try to be a little more outgoing and bring yourself out. i know its hard not to feel jealous, and trust me i get jealous easily too. we all do its our nature. but i think if you bring yourself out and intruduce the real guy u can be things will be better. no one is asking for perfection, and no one is asking for u to change. talk to her, admit to your jealousy, and tell her how it makes u feel. i mean if you really want to change for her and u care enough about her, try to lay back a little and remember that she doesn't like those guys shes laughing at. she likes u. if u know her and trust her, just remind yourself every time u feel jealous that she likes u. i bet she does pay attention to u, its just that these interruptions seem to outweigh the good times. i know how that feels. i mean im not going to say that she isn't into u, cuz idk the situation. but if thats what u are beginning to beleive, dont hold yourself back. be who u really are and explain to this girl what u are willing to put up with. if she is paying more attention to other guys than u, is she worth changing for? is she worth all that you have put in? idk whats going on in your life and i dont know this girl. u know her better than i do and i know u will make the right choice. :) ~em

Answer 10

Your relationship has turned to anger and resentment time to move on buddy just face the facts.