I have a soon to be six year old son. His biological father is a drug addict who has not been in his life since my son was about 20 months old. I have been with my boyfriend now for four years and he is the only father my son has known. He thinks my boyfriend now is his father. He even refers to my boyfriend as dad. My boyfriend has helped me raise him and treats him as his own since day one. I just need help with telling my son the truth. I don't know when or even how. I feel so guilty. I know my boyfriend loves my son like his own but I just don't want my son to think his life is a big lie. I would like to straighten everything out with him, but I just want to do it the right way so he is not upset or traumatized. please help me figure this out.
2007-06-24
16:36:16
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acura03
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My son is Irish and my boyfriend is spanish so there is the obvious difference between the two. I just feel so guilty. I don't want to hurt my son but I don't want to keep this huge secret drome him. I'm torn.
2007-06-24
16:57:17 ·
update #1