GUYS....I thought all guys jump at the chance for sex?

Question

My guy seems to be avoiding going any further than him touching me and making out. We are in our mid twenties and experienced.

Guys...If you really like someone do you prefer to hold off on getting intimate at first?

Or is this a sign he's not really into me as much as I thought?

Answer 1

I see it as a sign of respect. Getting sex is so easy now. Usually, relationships that begin with quick sex don't last very long. Maybe he likes you and wants you to stay around for a while or longer. Don't be so hasty to think something's wrong. If he continues to call you and go out with you, then be happy. I see it as something positive that he doesn't want your body right away.
Another thought-maybe he was hurt in his past relationships and is just being cautious. Another thought-maybe he's not well-endowed and is afraid you'll make fun of him.

Answer 2

I would not trust a female that does that either and I am a guy. I am a virgin and 37 and the only way I would give my virginity up for a girl is if she is between 18 and 25 and a virgin or close to it as popssible. The reason is because in order for a relationship to last and really work is that there has to be a serious and committed understanding and respect so that when a guy and a girl has sex, it is more than just a one night stand and a few orgasms.

Answer 3

Really it can go either way he may be holding off to make sure that you are comfortable enough for it to happen or maybe he wants you to make the first move
If he shows you in every other way he is interested then you have nothing to be worried about and should make the first move when your ready to make that step
But on the other side he may have lost interest so just take a deep look at what all he does and you will see your answer

Answer 4

I'd say if he's fooling around with you he IS interested, or else he probably wouldn't want to do that. Maybe, as rare as it is, he does care about you and doesn't want to make a move that'll scare you off. Or maybe he really likes you and wants to wait until the time is right, or maybe he has an STD and hasn't told you about it yet, and is afraid to. There could be a lot of different reasons, you should bring it up sometime, just say something like "Have you even thought of us taking it to the next level in our relationship?" and see what he says.

Answer 5

Sometimes when a guy really doesn't want to mess this one up he holds off, afraid to make a move for fear of doing the wrong thing. You can't go wrong talking about it. Being open about it could get him over it, loosen him up, make him more comfortable.

Answer 6

Thats werid .. If you guys never had made out yet , he must be something wrong . Or if you had sex with him before and he is avoiding now , he may become less intrested in you. Do some suprises.

Answer 7

i would just like to chill to see if the girl is interested in me then ive done it the other way its horse pee pee
how long holding off
3 weeks
after 3 weeks a ho will go get some man or woman

Answer 8

He is probably being faithful to someone he wants to be with, might be a past girlfriend or someone he hopes to be with. You probably resemble her in some respects which makes him feel guilty. If you weren't at all like her then he could have sex with you without feeling anything.
You should probably separate and move on.

Answer 9

Yeah, that could be a sign he is not into you. Or maybe he is messing around with someone else. Or it just could be he is not ready for sex. Guys go through that stage to.

Answer 10

It could be a couple of things. FIrst it could be what you said he is waiting becuase he's more into you than just sex. or maybe he just waiting for you to make the move. Being caucious with you.