after him to get some acion...it's been 1 week today I'm horny as hell lol , he went to bed lol I know he wants it, do I go there or let him suffer until he comes get it...
P.S. He's a shy boy
2007-06-24 15:39:32 · 6 answers · asked by marcela_ipa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just curious as to why you always have to initiate?? Just go in there now and tie him up. By now, I mean GET OFF OF THE COMPUTER AND GO!!!!! Have sex like you'll never again, then tell him if he wants it anymore he's gotta come get it. This will definitely help to eliminate the shyness. Most likely make the sex better as well. Sex can ALWAYS get better.
2007-06-24 15:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by MrAnonyMuss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have established the fact that he is shy. My suggestion to you is stop going after him for sex, because once this becomes a habit. He will expect this behavior all the time. And this behavior will not encourage him to indicate having sex with you. Take a stripper class, get into his head what turns him on? find out, you can turn this all around, and in the process you two will grow closer in more than just the sexual aspect of your relationship.When you all have sex remember to complement him, tell him how much you enjoy being with him. Guys have really big egos and sometimes a guy being shy, is just a little insecurity left over from a previous relationship. Your job is to let him know he makes you fill good, therefore encouraging him in the bedroom. I think you guys will be fine, just be patient, and encourage him without going after him, remember the guy is the conqueror. Good luck and have fun.
2007-06-24 23:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sha T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit making sex into some kind of power game.
Would you rather have a boyfriend who constantly paws at you even when you're not in the mood?
His deferral to you--waiting for you to make your desires clear, would be seen as a good thing by zillions of women.
Talk to him.
2007-06-24 22:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I feel your pain! Talk to him about it. If he wants it, but he's just shy, then he needs to know that you love him and that you're gonna be THRILLED if he initiates it and there is NOTHING to be shy about with you! You might try waiting until he does initiate it to show him that there isn't anything to be shy about. Another thing you might try is to just be flirty with him....complimentary of him...anything to build up his confidence and make him feel "manly" Good Luck!
2007-06-24 22:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he get horny and you don't give , he will serectly go out to look for it.
2007-06-24 22:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put out before he goes out and gets it somewhere else.
2007-06-25 11:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by jackie11418 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋