Why must guys let there pride get in the way of showing there feelings?? Why must girls have to always find the answers to there own questions... Does this guy love me or does he say it just to say it?? Actions speak louder then words... Why hide feelings Guys please Answer?
2007-06-24 14:24:28 · 13 answers · asked by Lu 3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because the entire time they're growing up we teach our sons to suppress their emotions. It's a terrible thing, but it's true. We don't want them to be made fun of and called cry babies.
If this guy loves you, you will know it in your heart. Don't get discouraged, some things take time.
Good luck.
2007-06-24 14:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by If the shoe fits... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said action speaks louder than any words he can say,but it is nice to hear things when they are the truth and he really means what he says in his heart,guy think sometimes it is weak to show there real feelings have to keep up a good front for other people to see and it hurts the relationship very bad,who cares what others think,show you girl your real feelings and it will all work out.
2007-06-24 14:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I will share this with you.
some guys cry when they lost their love.
some guys are afraid of rejection , or been out of love/
never find love.
having the ability to say I like you , and not get reject fast as road runner lol.
it's not easy to open our heart then taking the risk of rejection.
one have to accept our error in the relationship, tell you am sorry , been real with you.
been finally honest with you, try to work thing out.
the matter is what type of men you have
macho type or sensible type.
i hope this help you.
everyone think diferent something never change.
take care
god bless u
2007-06-24 14:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
we're pretty much all raised without divulging any emotion, so when a woman asks those questions of us, unless we're capable of being mature about it, it throws us for a loop and we wont tell you anything. at the same time, there are those who have feelings that they don't wish to burden others with, and will probably never tell you anything anyway.
why do you think he says "i love you" just to say it? is that just speculation on your part?
2007-06-24 14:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Booker 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because guys feel uncomfortable sharing emotions. or sometimes they feel like girls won't understand. or they feel like it's not a big deal. and the "i love you" thing is questionable. some guys say it and mean it and others are too scared to say they don't love you.
2007-06-24 14:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by cdaco9310 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because women like to ask us questions that they want us to answer a certain way........prime example = if you changed your hairstyle and asked me how I liked it, I wouldn't hesitate to tell you I hate it, and then you'd get upset at me. Same thing with shoes, clothes, etc, etc. If I don't like something that you changed on yourself, I will tell you I hate it without thinking twice about it. If we don't want women to get mad at us when answering a question, we'll just tell you what you want to hear.
It's not so much that we hide our feelings, we just say what you want to hear to avoid arguments.
2007-06-24 14:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont know but tell me when a guy gives u the answer tell me couse men are jerks i wann a man who tells me he loves me cares bout me and pays for the dates a real man
2007-06-24 14:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because when we show you how we really feel you get all offended. Just be happy he isn't telling you what he is thinking. You probably wouldn't want to hear it.
2007-06-24 14:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by Harvey D 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Guys stiffen up! They think that she won't accept him if he acts himself. So he acts kewl/hip, or mabe whatever attitude the girl prefers. It's mostly peer pressure.
2007-06-25 15:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by ldpuffdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its cuz guys wanna to seem macho wen theyre realy asswholes
2007-06-24 14:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋