If you fall love in someone else,not the one you married.What will you do ?

Answer 1

Make a tough decision and live by the consequences, either way is going to cause considerable pain. The secret to a happy life is not to get into such a dilemma.

Answer 2

Look! I fall in love with someone else every other week.
But I have been married to the same woman for over 36 years. If we all ran to the next person we were in love with we would all be in a different bed every single night.

Meeting new people, & having new & exciting relationships is what keeps us all alive as people. It doesn't necessarily mean that we dump the one who deserves us the most everytime we have a new crush.

Live, love, & enjoy life. But at the end of the day, remember who to come home to.

Answer 3

I definitely wouldn't be looking for love, since I'm married. I just don't think of other men that way. I think it would be impossible. If I were to develop feelings for another man, I would try to stay as far away from him as possible. I'd also try to reevaluate my marriage. If you aren't happy there are two things you can do, 1. Try to fix your marriage 2. Give up and get a divorce. I would never leave someone just so I could get with someone else.

Answer 4

You shouldn't put yourself in the position of being able to fall in love with somebody else ! What is wrong with your marriage ; why don't you love your husband ?
There is love and there is infatuation ! think about it .
True love is between people who know each other well , in marriage can be like a soft glove , you hardly know you are wearing ; does not have the excitement of fresh new found romance ; but is quietly much deeper and richer . " Grass is not greener on the other side of the fence "!!! Better the devil you know than the one you don't "!!! Forget It !!!

Answer 5

love triangles are always devastating. depending on the "other" persons. All relationships have steps or growth patterns- some people end up in divorce and with the other person, Some recognize it as devasting and break it off with the other person; only to have to rebuild a relationship with their spouse. Best thing to do if you are married is not fall in love with someone else

Answer 6

I suggest you be thankful for the traits in the person you married. Most of the time "falling in love with someone else" is just a sign that something needs to be addressed in your marriage that's not being dealt with. Get marriage counseling and God Bless!!!

Answer 7

I would call off the person i am supposed to marry. If I didn't the marriage would proboally be very gloomy for the rest of my life. I wouldn't really love the person. Or else it would end in divorce, wich is in some reasons is very sad. I would go with the person I really loved.

Answer 8

Sounds as if you've been spending some time where you shouldn't have been. When you are married to someone you should always be faithful....it's part of the vows you promised on your wedding day. If this person has driven you away with violence, or he's been cheating on you, then I'm all for you leaving him. If he's a good man and you've just grown tired of him, shame on you.

Answer 9

Have an affair, get divorced, or stick with the marridge. Are you sure you're in love with them. Is it not just a fantasy that fills something that your marridge is missing. Imagine this persons sweating out a curry on the toilet while reading penthouse. You might go off them.

Answer 10

You ignore it and work on your marriage. Marriage is a binding thing, your spouse is a part of you now. Getting bored or horny is not a good reason to end it. You made your vows, it's your responsibility to stick to them through something like this. Just because you feel a certain way, doesn't mean you act on it.