What should i do about it. they are both 16 and very social and I belive that the girlfriend is a slut
help
2007-06-24 13:45:56 · 8 answers · asked by crazymama 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Talk with your daughter about it. See if you can find out what the other girl is doing, and how your daughter feels about ti.
Under NO circumstances should you tell your daughter that you hate this girl. Do NOT forbid your daughter from being with this girl.
The more you talk down about this girl, the more your girl will insist on being with that girl, because what does Mom know, anyway? If you give your daughter enough room to make her own decisions, she may give up this friend on her own, soon.
2007-06-24 14:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by kiwi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel but under exaggerate a bit. Because I know that when my mom told me stuff like that about my friends (who in reality weren't that bad) I told them. And that just creates more drama in the end. Plus if they are very social (meaning they're probably very close) they're not going to end the friendship because "Mommy said so." She's 16 let her make her own decisions. In two years she'll be free to do what she wants regardless of what you say. So enjoy the last two real years of living with your daughter and don't complicate them over friends that a little drama at school could mess up. Let the friendship play itself out.
2007-06-26 00:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by italian_swim_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's not hard for me to say this to you because I'm not in your shoes but I have to go with some of the people on here you just need to talk to her because as silly as this may sound your always going to be there for her and her friends may-be for another 2-5 years so let her know how you feel if you don't feel right about them being around those people they call friends because it might just not be you it might also be that feeling that only moms get when they know something not good so try not to let to much time go by.
Good Luck
2007-06-24 22:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by JG78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would YOUR mother do? Would she be asking other peoples' opinion, or just tell you straight to your face?
You're still the parent and she's still the daughter. That was my philosophy until the kids became adults.
2007-06-24 20:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by CGlez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre a mom and you dont like youre own daughters friend then you tell youre kids not to hang out with whoever you dislike her or him ? thats isnt hard to do that for youre child.if youre kids doesnt listening to you then you can told them their grounded and cant even see or talk or even have their firends to come over til they do listening to what you had told them not to see that friend anymore. i know it sound crazy but it might help them .
2007-06-24 20:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by statecalifornia2009 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell ur daughter how u feel
2007-06-24 20:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how and why you feel that way about her friend then ask her to stop hanging around her
2007-06-28 19:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it
2007-06-24 20:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋