guys are such idiots at times. They don't treat girls right too. they lie about "working", take advantage, hit girls(at times) and treat girls like they don't have feelings. I think they should switch places with us to see how it feels. maybe a lot of guys will change their minds and be more sensitive towards girl. don't you?
2007-06-24 12:36:47 · 34 answers · asked by Das_Jennster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all men are like this and keep in mind that women can do the same thing too. I think your looking in the wrong places. Try something new, don't go for the same type of men. Good luck!! :D
2007-07-01 18:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a guy that lies to you, hits you and treats you like s***, you need to get away from him. Most guys are not like that and if you are finding a lot of them, you need to change what YOU look for in a guy. If the "bad boys" are the ones that excite you, then you will continue to have those kind of problems. People who tend to have an "I don't give a F***" attitude usually don't and aren't capable of having good, lasting relationships. On the other hand, if you find a guy who will wear a dress to prove he is not that way, you may want to avoid him as well. Make some new guy friends and eventually you will see that one of them have the qualities you are looking for. In a good relationship, you should be friends with your partner before you are any thing else. That establishes good communication which is necessary for a good relationship. Happy hunting..........................
2007-07-02 11:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Missouri Mick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly u have anger issues and u probably got ur heart broken and all that other stuff u put on the question. Ok look u need to wait for something amazing to happen now u will find a guy thats everything u want and i recomend watching the movie Hitch. U claim to hate guys but yet in a split second ur mind will change. Just wait and u will find true love.
2007-07-02 07:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by snacbirhouse93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, Maybe switching places would regulate the outcome of how SOME men treat women.
Personally I believe that men who are abusive to woman aren't real men... They are cowards who take out their frustration on weaker, sensitive, and very beautiful beings.
Women also need to take charge and stop letting themselves get treated this way. I know its easy to say, but dam it, if you women don't stand up and strike back (not literally) then you wont get any results.
Instead of just ignoring the problem you should confront your a**hole boyfriend/husband and lay down some law. If the case is really extreme then I'm sorry ladies but contact the police.
Guys I know women are freaking psychopaths and dish out a lot of bullsh*t, but women are the most important part of life. Besides We need them .. so why not show them we care...
If we show love, we'll get some back, If we show pain... Then Karma will get your punk a**
2007-06-24 12:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by Romeo C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. these people lack empathy. empathy is developed at a young age (5 - 8) if they missed the train, the train usually doesn't come back around.
They do have a slight chance of out growing their selfishness.
they usually have until they are 26 for the frontal lobe to finish forming. it controls rational behavior and impulse control.
switching roles will only frustrate them and they will fail to focus on your lesson.
please remember too that women are capable of the same. If you believe they aren't, you need to broaden your view of the world.
with time.
I am a male and do not beat up girls, I don't take advantage (esp if they are drunk), and I respect everyones feelings, Male or Female.
And I have no reason to lie about anything. If I need to lie, I am only lieing to myself. why would I want to do that?
2007-06-24 12:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure that happens sometimes, but there's also cases of the opposite with women who take advantage of guys who are nothing like that (I know it's a slimmer number). What I'm really saying is that not all guys are like that. It's unfortunate that you feel that way, but you'll regret it if you can't get over that and pass up a good guy because you weren't able to open up to the good ones because of what the jerks had done in the past.
2007-06-24 12:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well not all guys are like that. Mostly boys act that way and true men like me know how to treat women with respect and confidentence. So want to be happy find you a man not a boy or a man who acts like a boy. And besides why do girls fall for all that bull for. They make you feel good because they say what you want to hear then they get what they want and leave. WOW who's fault is it?
2007-06-24 12:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where let me tell you the table have turn in this life time. Girls today are in control today. They take advantage of the guys with their body, clothing. They lie about not having a boyfriend, telling the other guys that they are single. Today girls are out of control, they are breaking guys heart daily.
2007-07-02 12:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
Whether your trying to take a completly feministic point of view or whether your just trying to express your opinion im not sure. But no, men wouldn't improve if they switched positions with girls. Both men and women have exactly the same hardships, just in different ways!
2007-06-24 12:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Phantom 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
dude i bet you wouldn't believe how many of the girls that get sucked into those relationships keep goiing back to those same type of guys. There are also many cases of females being the domestic abusser rather than the victim. Just a freindly defense for all the guys who hate getting there rep. smashed by some jerk with an alchohol problem.
2007-06-24 12:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by cobrascnumba13 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋