I have a boyfriend who is wonderful in everything he does he opens doors for me, my parents love him, he is a true gentleman. the only thing wrong with him is that he can not kiss! I have no idea what to do, i want to be able to give him a kiss and cuddle with him but when we i just want to stop. i do not want this to get in the way of an other wise wonderful relationship. PLEASE anyone help , please give me advice on what to do besides like sitting down and telling him straight out about it. That would be kinda weird.The person with the best answer gets 10 points.
2007-06-24 09:25:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not his 1st gf he is 17 and he has done stuff with girls kissing wise, we havent been together long so that could play a part in it he siad that i kiss differntly so it could just be differnt.
2007-06-24 09:37:27 · update #1
Well, if you don't wanna tell him straight up.. then sit him down, and take the lead.. when he starts trying to kiss him your way.. push him back a little.. give him some naughty look or somethin'.. then take the lead again... You can pause every now and then.., ask him if he liked what you just did...If he doesn't.. then it's probably going to be really tough to get him to do the same to you.. of course you should be kissing him how you'd want to be kissed.. so that if he likes it.. you can gently tell him to kiss you like that.. or that you like it that way too.. you can play some commanding (or dominating) role during the make out session.. You can sit on him so you have control.. and just kiss him the way you want to be kissed.. keep him wanting more.. and give him the impression that if he kisses you the way you kissed him.. and if he does it right and turns you on.. you'll give him more (kisses, maybe. :D i don't want to push anything beyond that in this answer) Well, if he does kiss you right, then you can really show him that that's how you like it...Or give him some sign that you want more of THAT kind of kiss.. grab his arm, squeeze it, throw your arm around him, or even slap him all of a sudden and tell him to do that again (in lieu with dominance) ...be creative in "showing" him how you want to be kissed. Ball's in your court.
2007-06-24 09:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by Rogee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? Is it possible that this is his first time? Here is my theory: everyone can kiss, they just kiss differently. The longer you are with him and the more you kiss him, the more you two will adjust to each other. I guarantee you wont feel this way forever, he just has to get used to how you like it....i guess you kind of 'mold him' how you want him. I think its rare to find 2 people that kiss the same way, so just give it time. :]
2007-06-24 09:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by amy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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I don't know how to work around the "Don't ask me to talk to him" restriction.
If you try to show him, and you really give him passionate kisses yourself, he could take that as an invitation to get much more intimate.
Here's an idea: You say, Steve, I really like you. I enjoy your company, my parents like you, I appreciate the way you________. You can validate him two or three ways, just talk about stuff that you admire or appreciate about him.
But I need to ask you one thing?
What's that?
How did you learn to kiss?
What do you mean?
Well, let me put it this way: Let's try an experiment. Are you up for that? Let's think about kissing as something similar to dancing. Follow my moves, keep it slow and easy, but try to talk to me without saying anything.
This is just an experiment. If you don't like it, we don't need to continue. But, in my opinion, if you can be more open about it, learn about it, it will help you with all the women that you will date in the future.
2007-06-24 09:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could take it slow and try to just "show" him.
I know you said you don't want to talk to him about it, but how many girlfriends has he had? If you're his first, maybe it wouldn't be so bad to, for example, when you're kissing, try to give him tips. Gently, of course. It'd be easier if he left you an opening by asking if he was doing it right. XD
2007-06-24 09:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Adrian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do don't tell him that.
I have been in a similar situation. I have just requested to let me kiss him. After a little bit of leading he get a little more acquainted with your style of smooching and will hopefully pick it up.
2007-06-24 09:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by smedrik 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you can teach him to be a better kisser. And if you could teach him what a "french kiss" is, I'm sure you'll love you for that.
2007-06-24 09:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
MY Boyfriend is the EXACT same way.... it sucks.. but you get used to it... try dominating the kiss everyone in a while.. like seriously take charge.
2007-06-24 09:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say dress up as another girl, (or get a friend to do this) have the other girl go up to him and kiss him, and then she will tell your boyfriend he is a terrible kisser.
2007-06-24 09:30:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Teach him the way you like to be kissed....but don't say anything to him....that would really hurt him.
2007-06-24 09:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by Merry 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Teach him how to kiss, and be honest about it!
2007-06-24 09:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋