Ok so my religion says i have to be married by the age of 25 or im shunned to death. So as you can see, I desperatly need a guy. I have not had a boyfriend since Fifth grade, that only lasted two days. My brother Calls me the 40 year old virgin. What should i do?
2007-06-24 09:10:31 · 19 answers · asked by Bugaboo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe all the boys you know know about your religion and it scares them. I personnal think its a mistake to rush into marriage. I think you are still young and most people shouldnt get married until their late 20's or early 30's. Too many young people get married and it ends in divorce. Why not look for a man that is the same religion as you?
2007-06-24 09:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You have plenty of time...dont worry. What your doing now isn't working....obviously...so change some things. What is your routine? change it? What are you wearing? Change it? When is the last time you had a hair makeover? Change it. Go to the mall and buy yourself some new clothes (not slutty) and treat yourself like a princess....at some point you gotta start feeling better about your situation....you feel good about you and you will start looking more attractive to others. You sound a little sad or defeated. You should get out more...baseball game, bar, concert, whatever....you aren't gonna find a man just sitting around listening to your mean brother. Now get out there and show the world what you've got!!!!
2007-06-24 16:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by BudLt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, consider a new religion!! I have never really heard of such a thing so that is a first for me.
Seriously though, look for a guy that is into the same things you are and heck we live in new age don't be shy ask a guy out that you might find interesting.
2007-06-24 16:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by 4mika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, your religion is a cult if that's what you believe.lol. because if you rush in marrage it will only make things worse. so when the time comes the time comes. heck you may even be 45 before you get married, dont let your church decide how old your suppose to be. find another church.
2007-06-24 16:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by Linda B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try online dating. It's easy.
If that doesnt work, hit the bar and wait till about 15 min before closing and any guy there alone is probably gunna be down.
If that fails....become a nun.
2007-06-24 16:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by Herby190 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of whacko religion and family do you belong to? Sheesh. You're still young but an adult and don't need to settle down if you don't want to. Do what you want. Using religion to manipulate people is pathetic.
2007-06-24 16:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should go to the dating things that are put on by churches. You could find a guy like you there. Don't be shy either.
My Space?
2007-06-24 16:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change religions
2007-06-24 16:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove ur bro wrong get a boyfriend by just going to a club or something. thats a fast way to get a bf. that how i got my gf.
2007-06-24 16:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by Spawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you are in a fix.. your religion has stopped you from dating and finding good guys.. you just need to be very out going.. make yourself look very nice maybe a little sexy and go out and find some guys... be humorus and out going.. dont be shy.. always look guys in the eye.. dont look away or down.. talk t them.. you will find a guy..
2007-06-24 16:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋