Yes. I poseted this last night. I just want more ansers. So please.... HELP!?

Question

So. All my life I have been the ugly girl w/ pretty friends. So all the guys I have ever liked, Have liked my freinds. So I am 15 years old, never had a boyfreind.
So, I met this guy and he is 17... yupp two years older. And we had talked a lot. I was at house (he invited me over) and he kept putting his legs all over me and tickleing me and what I considered flirting. So I stayed for 2 and a half hours from 9:30PM to 12:00AM. Than I got home and about 12:30AM I got a call from him. We talked for a while and he said "But seriously, do you like me?" and replied "I don't know..." and he said "Thats not a serious answer" and I said "Yes it is... there is things I like about you and things I dislike about you" And than I asked him the same question and got the same answer. We talked about both those and he said I was easy to talk to... and beautiful and some other stuff. Then today he said I am to young. And asked me to hook him up w/ one of my freinds. Im so confused. Whats he thinking?

Yes, he knew how old I was. And the funny thing his he has never seen any of my freinds. Never met any of them.
And he always asks me to go for a ride with him in his car when its late.
And all my freinds are the same freakin age!?!
And supposedly im "beautiful" so why does he want my freinds?
I am so confused!
And pretty freakin emotional at that!
I am sick of being used and hurt!
I know when you put your whole heart into things its easy to get it broken but I cant help it.
I feel sick to my stomach.
ahh.
I hate boys. =-]
By the way for everyone to know I am not a s!ut I dont dress like a s!ut or anything and I am saving myself for marriage and he knows that. I told him stright up when we first met I am a virgin and plan to stay one until find the right guy. And that was forever ago and he was cool with it then...

By the way I put a picture on last night so you guys can't be like "Well I don't know what you look like!"
Even though its a bad picture. =-]
-lol-

Answer 1

ok first of all, he's a loser. second of all, your a valuable gem.you have values and morals. You Have CLass. dont waste your time on just anyone. Dont let ANY guy make a beggar out of you. Dont settle for anything LESS than the BEST that U DESERVE!!!.....there are enough girls out there wasting their time on incompatible men, dont be one of them, continue to respect urself the way u have been, and give your unique beauty a little more credit, it seems like your esteem is a little low, its ok though, we all go through that, its time to break free from society's standard and shine the way you only can..only a real special person worth ur while will be able to perceive ur uniqueness and seek u!!!!
take care!!

Answer 2

He was probably trying to make you jealous because he didn't think you were that interested in him.

I doubt he really wants one of your friends because as you said, they are the same age as you and he's never met them before.....therefore he is blatantly trying to make you jealous.

Anyway.....he seems like a bit of a muppet if you ask me. If you like him, then tell him that without beating about the bush. If he's cool about the whole saving till marriage thing then he doesn't seem like a bad bloke, but the moment he tries to pressure you into having sex then walk away. You have to be careful because boys that age generally only want one thing. In fact, he could just really want sex and maybe that's why he asked to you to hook him up with on of your mates. If that's the case, he's one big fat jerk. Anyway, it seems that you probably like him since you wouldn't be so concerned and asking this question in the first place and it sounds like he likes you too otherwise he wouldn't have asked you that question.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Sugar, I think that he trying to hook up with anyone.

Since you have made yourelf unavailable and says you are too young, but yet wants you to hook him up with one of your friends who are all the same age as you says it all!

Also, you are a nice looking young lady. Have more confidence in yourself. Believe you are pretty and you will make others think you are pretty too. It can also be in how you present yourself. If your outfit isn't quite "together" or your make up isn't working right... or your hair isn't right for your features... It can give you a feeling of not being pretty enough.

Get your friends to help! Have a slumber party. Make it a makeup party, a hair styling party. Get the opinions of your friends what looks good on you... etc etc.

Answer 4

You got to be confident with yourself. Ugly or not you don't need a boyfriend to be happy. It also means that is not the right time to be in a relationship. Girl go out and have fun with your friends forget about having a boyfriend. I mean you never had one why do you want one now. I have friends that they are a little older than me and well they never had a girl or a boyfriend. Wait for the right time. I don't need a guy to be happy or to have fun. I love to party and most guys just like to tell you what to do so I don't need a guy telling me what to do. I got to dance and all that and I have fun with my friends. I had a boyfriend and he was just bossing me around so I dumped him because I want to be free not attach to some guy who just like to control. About the guy you talk to go with the flow. If you like him tell him (of course wait until he ask you). Ask him if he likes you. Don't hook him w/ any of your friends let him do it himself. And when someone ask you something don't say "Idk" I mean "I don't know" because is not an answer. Well I hope this helps!! Good luck!

*MS.G*

Answer 5

Let me give you some advice. I dont thank you are ugly. You just may not have he beauty outside the you feel your friends have. Inner beauty is more important than outter any day.
I just dont want you to let the older guy use you because you thank you need the comfort. He feel the need in you and will use it to his advantage to get what he wants. dont let him use you. If he is asking you to hook him up with one of your friends tell him to hit the road and dont look back. You are a beatuiful person and deserve better.

Answer 6

It seems to me that he was tryign to get a 'piece' from you, thinking that you were easy to get.

Then seeing that you were not goign to 'give it up' like that, he needed something to keep his ego 'intact', thus using the argument that youre too young to justify in his mind, the apparent rejection of sexual relations he was trying to get from you.

Since you were not as easy as he thought, looks like he is going to try to move on to someone else, and thinking since youre younger than he is, that by being older, you will give in that way and get him hooked up with one of your friends so he can try the same thing, get some 'action' from them.


Basically;

He wanted some sex
thought you were an easy mark
you were not an easy mark
you rejected his sexual advances
he then 'led you on' emotionally
then justifying your rejection of his attempting sexual advances, he says ur too young... (that wasnt an issue the other day, right?)
Then he thinks he will get with one of your friends now and try to get some sex from them.... using the similar approach that he tried with you.

If he had the opportunity, he would try to get sex from each and every one of your girl friends.

Answer 7

Sounds like he was using you. He wanted one of your friends. You practically answered the question yourself. Your friends are the same age as you but you are too young. Could be, he wants someone with experience... someone is willing to have sex with him.

The truth is... you can never know what he is/was thinking.

Answer 8

let me tell you something, you are not ugly, ou just need to work on building your self esteem. stop worrying about how yur friends look and spend more time making yourself feel better by accepting you for who you are and loving yourself. once you can do that, work on improving you appearance, prettier vlothes (not sluttier clothes) nice hairstyles and try a bit of makeup to match your clothes. then you will feel good, but you have to start from the inside and with yourself.
OKAY!!! guys are smart, and the easily sense a girl that is insecure and desparate. don't be that girl. he is trying to play off your insecurities like you will go for anything because you don't feel so great about yourself. don't talk to or spend time with him anymore. another possiblity is that he was trying to use you to get to your friends. yes, HE has never say them, but believe it or not, guys talk more tha girls do so he may have gotten tipped off by one of his guy friends that do know what your friends look like. forget him. as someone close to you how to dress and be more hip, and continue to work on you on the inside. once you can do this and feel more confident, guys will be all over YOU and YOU can diss them instead ...don't let it get to your head though. if you can do this, the guys will try to use your (god forbid) insecure friends to get to you.
relax hon, your beautiful, you just have to see this for yourself.

Good Luck!

Answer 9

You cannot be brutally honest when just starting to know someone or date them. Guys have egos and you may have fractured his when you said "there are things I don't like about you". The correct answer should have been "you are an interesting guy, why don't we spend more time together getting to know each other better?"

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Answer 10

Guys just aren't cool with waiting till your married to have sex. Its a long time and a lot of guys dont wanna commit to marriage till theyve seen all of you... or theyre like 30