I'm so desperate to have sex. I want it so much. But i couldnt find a decant guy for years. I'm afraid of starting to have sex with people i dont know for just getting it. How can i get off this phsycology??
I really feel so desperate
2007-06-24 08:46:59 · 27 answers · asked by befirsttoknow 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(i'm 23.. i guess its time ;) )
2007-06-24 08:54:01 · update #1
How old are you, it could just be the curiosity of it. Be patient it's probably your age your time will come.
2007-06-24 08:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by stinkypinkyteddybear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend like you. She wants to have sex soooo bad. But believe me, going out and having sex with a random person, just so you know what's like to lose your virginity isn't the way to go. You'll just end up feeling cheap and horrible in the end. Finding someone you really care about will work out much better. Chances are you won't "end up" with this person forever, but as long as you two are always on good terms, you'll feel much better about your first time, than if it was with a complete stranger that only wanted to get in your pants. Let me know if you need anything....I'm open ears!
I also somewhat agree with "big moan". Finding a person you are friends with and could STAY friends with after "sealing the deal" would be much better than a random bar fly.
2007-06-24 08:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's only natural to want to have sex... i don't know if you've slept with anyone before or not? but if you're a virgin then you might just want to hang onto your virginity until "that special someone comes along" or if you're not, and you really, really, really want sex then yes find a man but wear a condom with him. There is of course masturbation with the right movie and device you could be in heaven???
2007-06-24 09:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This message comes from a man. DONT HAVE SEX WITH JUST ANYONE! I am the same way. I need it, just like most men, as often as possible. You dont always need a man. Good luck!
2007-06-24 08:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by wurm_15136 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been celebate for almost two years but it's because i went thru a horrible divorce and just needed time to get myself together. now i'm talking to a great guy. BUT perhaps if you find men who just want to have sex. you know have one or two men you date JUST for sex. that's where i am in my life. i dont want a relationship. i just want a guy who i can satisfy and he me. no strings attach. men LOVE that! lol maybe when you seek men you might want to try that. and make it clear to the men, because they arent mind readers. good luck!
2007-06-24 08:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by The Cougar 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
find a husband. you start having sex with just anybody and you'll just end up getting emotionally screwed up and probably getting an std. get a hobby or immerse yourself in work..
2007-06-24 08:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by JJK789 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try courting for a while ,its what your parents did whilst they got to know someone before engaging in sex! to alter your view of first date sex imagine that the person your with could be your partner for the rest of your life.it would probably put you of your one night stands and prepare you for a serious meaningful relationship
2007-06-24 08:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Use something battery operated till the right guy or girl comes around.
2007-06-24 08:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Come round mine right now you little minx!!
I have a real big bit of equipment and I'd love to give you such a good seeing to.....
Oooooh yeah.
2007-06-24 08:52:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing i can suggest is a good night alone if you know what i'm saying...also try to get out there and find that good guy you've been looking for...we're out there, trust me
2007-06-24 08:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jhaycen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋