Low Self Esteem Women Really Get Screwed: Why Do Men Condone This?

Question

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Jesse Davis having her 2nd baby by a married man with a track record of violence having an affair with her, then he kills her and his baby, and worst, some people blame the victim for making bad choices.
Predators like Cutts prey upon women with low self esteem, so do MANY MEN, they seek them out in the crowd in order to victimize them from murder to rape to just your run-of-the-mill date rape or one night stand/never call back situation.
Why do many men think it's OK to victimize women who obviously are in need of love, support, and a friend? Do they ever think with their big head, or just the little one?

Answer 1

It is not OK for men to victim women, and I have no respect for men who do. It just seems like women are much more attracted to abusive men than nice nerds who would treat them with respect, we have problems getting any interest.

Answer 2

I had low self esteem growing up hon.When I made stupid choices ,low self esteem was a part of it YET I TOOK responsibility KNOWING what the risks were.Sometimes guys pick a woman with low self esteem because THEY have low self esteem and want to rescue the girl then realize they may have gotten her out of a bad situation, but thats as far as the rescue went.She still needs rescuing form her mental state of mind.Also, let's talk about how women victimize men emotionally who have low self esteem by USING them.This happens.Then some women when they lose control over a guy kills him.That has happened before.Who told you it was ok for a man to victimize ANYONE?A lot of these women KNOW the risks REFUSE to listen to reason from family or friends IGNORE the warning signs etc. and take the risks ANYWAY ,in fact VOLUNTEER a 99% chance to BE a victim.Don't put ALL of this on the man, it takes 2 to make a mess.It isn't easy to turn down love from a loser when you feel like a loser yourself and unloved, unwanted etc, but sometimes we have to use our heads, not out hearts, see through the hurtful eyes of reality rather than fantasy.

Answer 3

You're forgetting the fact that these aren't normal men. They're sociopaths so they are seeking out the women that they can victimize- the ones who are most needy. On the other hand women with moderate self esteem issues attract men who are moderately screwed up and abusive (I know that from experience!) It isn't a woman's fault that she has issues because it's the way she was raised, but although it takes time and effort, we can all make choices to learn to be happier and stop being so exploitable.

Answer 4

guys like the control... women with low self esteem will do almost anything for a guy that shows an interest in her afraid of losing the one person that says they love her or care about her... and when he says that noone else would want her... she easily believes him and feels trapped but doesnt have the gusto to walk away and find out for her self... its really sad....

Answer 5

most men are ***** thats why!they think with there ***** not there brains.what ever there dick points at is where they follow.