yesterday my boyfriend was at my house and i got his cell phone and it said... recieved calls.... and had a girls name! I hand him the phone and he knew i got upset and started saying that one of his friends called her and that he didnt know who she was... last time he wanted to go "work out with a girl" what should i do?... leave him?... ugh help please!
2007-06-24 07:32:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I had the same problem. My boyfriend (now ex) called girls and girls called him and he didn't tell me about it. I thought he was cheating and to this day I still despise the girl... I still wonder why he didn't tell me about it.. ill never know if anything ever did happen... but i still hate and despise the girl... ARGH!
2007-06-24 07:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by Blonde08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him and be nice to him. I'm sure he wont cheat on you. And asking for other people's opinions on yahoo answers for matters like these, will only confuse you more. Some might be positive and some might be negative. And also, by discussing with my friends, I have lost both, a good and a drunkard girlfriend. So this is purely for you to sit down and think and decide asap. Dont mess up the energy and freshness of yer youth! Instead, enjoy them!
2007-06-24 07:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by sreesh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop messing around with his cell, trust him, believe him, and try to quit being jealous. Until he actually does something wrong, leave him alone. What if he is being honest and telling the truth? If you find him to be a liar, well then by all means trash his cell phone, slap his face and break up with him.
2007-06-24 07:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think just because he had a recieved call from a girl it's not that big of a deal...now if he was calling her all the time, or texting her all the time. that would start to make me wonder. You just have to remember guys have bros n girl friends.
Don't jump his gun about it just yet, try figuring more into first...assumptions= making an *** out of you and him.
good luck, hope it all works out for you.
2007-06-24 07:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by brandon jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Stop being nosey. The reason he gets upset and uncomfortable is because YOU are creating an environment where he has to be dishonest.
2) If you are suspicious, ask him if you can come and work out with him and her.
3) More than likely, it doesn't sound good. I'd say be prepared to dump.
2007-06-24 07:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by veolapaul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to have trust when it comes to a relationship. If you don't believe him them tell him, let him know how you are feeling about this. If he gets mad, then something is up, but if he tells you that you don't have anything to worry about and that there is only you, then you need to believe that and go on with the relationship. Good Luck!
2007-06-24 07:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by nascarfan31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, sometimes it's not always as it seems, just calm down for a second, because he might be telling the truth, but if you must find out for curiosity, call this girl and see who it is
2007-06-24 07:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by avery t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use my cell telephone many places, alongside with the showering room. whether i did not, I sparkling off the exterior of it with Germ-X approximately as quickly as a week. i don't supply a 2nd theory-approximately all of us utilizing a cellular telephone everywhere, until eventually the hoop tone is loud.
2016-09-28 09:41:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we go looking for things, we find out things we should have left alone. I would imagine he has other girls he talks to, even if its just talking. If its not a serious relationship with him, then you need to move on with yourself.
2007-06-24 07:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get get jealous hes with you and it seems a little controlling that you get mad that he has girls who r friends it's like lmiting him
you can only have guy friend K cause i can't trust you with girls is what the message is......if you think you can't trust him or just your mind then leave him before it ends up bad later on
2007-06-24 08:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by Kristina S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋