as long as both people are happy. no more. no less.
2007-06-24 06:30:27
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answered by Wallflower 5
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There is nothing called best marriage!!!!
If you ask how long does the best love last, i would say "forever".. But as far as marriage is concerned, it last till each of them adjust each other during hard times. "adjust" is a masked word, it's real face is "faking" each other. As long as both of them good in faking each other, the marriage will last to that far.
Everyone is the way their individual needs are. Many people have become this way, just like sheep. They never give it a thought, whether they need the marriage or not. They just get married because everybody else gets married. Many people do not look into this deeply. They do not look into whether there is a definite need for marriage or not. Every body gets married, so they also get married. After three days, the person can no longer bear it; he cannot seem to manage all the things that come alone with marriage. Marriage means many changes in lifestyle. Shouldn't one get into this only after they are fully prepared to face these changes and take up to the responsibilities? It is not a single day's matter. Many things come with it.
Once you make a structure(marriage) out of love, once you make this relationship into an investment in life, nothing worthwhile in life remains with you.
If you love somebody, immediately you want to make an investment out of it, isn't it? Why? You want to get all the securities that you can get out of it, but then it is finished.
If you try to extract something out of love, love will be gone; only extraction will be there. Unfortunately, everybody tries to do it. They pay a big price, but people don't learn.
2007-06-24 06:52:06
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answered by kannan r 2
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In my opinion, love might be forever. But marriage ?... it is up to the people involved and ... their "capacity" to stay together and they way they go on with the relationship and how well they get along.
Remember that Marriage is kind of a "contract", is not a feeling at all.
There are people in life that we love, but definitely we cannot live with, and viceversa.
But one thing I can say is that, if u love each other, u both have more chance to a "best marriage" and last longer or "nerver end" than those couples who have a marriage with no love, due to Love can become impossible things into possible ones.
In the other hand there are plenty of people (most of them women) who say that with or without love, Marriage is just "a lotery", a simple matter of luck to make it last long and good.
So I wish u a "bingo"..
2007-06-24 06:33:02
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answered by NA 4
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The best marriages last 50 years or more. This is without question. While there are marriages that last 27 years for example but end by death or divorce, nothing tops being married to the same person for half a life time such as 50 years.
2007-06-24 06:33:16
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answered by Rone de Beauvoir 1
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Forever
2007-06-24 06:31:12
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answered by Master G 2
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Forever!
2007-06-24 06:30:31
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answered by Tink 2
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It lasts as long both partners are putting the other first as well as bringing out each other's best qualities.
2007-06-24 06:38:10
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answered by "the Otter" 4
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unitl they both die, but then again, it depends, Are the people who were married still in love? I think if they were in love and stayed together after the I Do's then it was a great marriage
2007-06-24 06:31:36
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answered by Anonymous
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Bets marriage? Ever heard the phrase "Until death do we part"? But then this has been answered many times here hasn't it? Thanks for the 2 points though!
2007-06-24 06:34:33
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answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5
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Forever and beyond.
My parents have been married 47 years and still say I love you.
2007-06-24 06:31:02
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answered by Chef Wolfgang 2
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As long as both party is alive and want to remain married.
2007-06-24 19:40:44
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answered by Omo Oba 1
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