Should I move on or try for the THIRD time??

Question

We have been together for 3 years and everything was all good until january. Since then weve broken up twice. Now she wants to give it a third try and I dont know if I want to get hurt again. She wanted me back so bad and now that im back she has been saying im to overbearing and crave to much attention from her but she says she does want to work things out and that she is happy she just hates when im paranoid and worried. Should I try to make our relationship work one last time or just stop kicking a dead dog? She just goes through these moodswings where she wants her space and doesnt want me to give her attention or kiss her and she never used to be like this. I dont know what the hell is going on.

Answer 1

She sounds like a real flake. You have to be the man and set the rules and throw a big fit when she indulges a mood swing or acts unreasonable. Or just move on and not have to deal with it anymore.

The less emotionally involved person has control of the relationship. If you are at the point where you could take or leave her, that is power and maybe this relationship can work if you keep that attitude.