Is it fair for my PREGNANT GF to ask that i should not smoke at all, not drink ( not even once in a while), not play pool withot her or hang out with my male friends without her, not to talk in my mother tounge with my friends in front of her (she does not understand my mother tounge) & if i talk by mistake she gets mad for days, and basically shold not so anything that she can't do now because she is pregnant with my kid.
2007-06-24 01:12:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Woman are funny but even more so when pregnant so just ride it out ~~
2007-06-24 01:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not fair to expect you to change who you are, who your friends are, and what your hobbies are. She should have thought about whether or not you are the kind of man she wants to have kids with before getting knocked up. It is fair for her to expect you to not smoke in front of her. Do remember that pregnant women have some emotional oddness during her time of hormonal turmoil. You two need to talk about this and see a counselor if neccessary and resolve this before the baby comes.
2007-06-24 08:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by molly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some of the stuff is OK like the drinking and the smoking because that is something that you shouldn't expose her to while she is pregnant. but even though she is pregnant you still need you time where you chill with the boys or by yourself. it is just a manner of compromise.
2007-06-24 08:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well pregnancy is something very special to a female and for her first child she wants everything to be perfect. i would wait til shes in a good mood and talk to her about it. if not then ur gonna have to suck it up because if u can last through a pregnancy, the the relation can work through almost anything. good luck
2007-06-24 08:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by becca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her you'll see her at the hospital to see your child and make payments and visits, she should learn your mother tounge, and shes not your friggen boss just cos you knocked her up. she sounds like a beatch. Pregancy is no excuse, once a beatch always a beatch.
2007-06-24 08:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by beatch38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's punishing you for getting her prego, wait to go, you picked a good one. Obviously you're pretty young and immature, can you say "child support"? No it's not fair for her to ask you to give up your life for the next 9mo when she's giving up hers for the next 18yrs .. GROW UP
2007-06-24 08:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by aspecialfred 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
her hormones are a bit out of whack which leaves us women a bit moody m8..she will be fine once bubs here...Love her as much as you can is all any girl can ask for when were hormonal..lol
2007-06-24 08:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by cowgirl angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first
2007-06-24 08:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jason M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's pregnant, give her a break..
2007-06-24 08:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋