2007-06-23 19:34:32 · 6 answers · asked by pradnya p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both !!! Love at first sight does happen, maybe not everyone in the planet experience it, but I am sure people do, I did. Long and lasting friendship does happen too, I've had friends for more than 20 years and I still to this day keep in touch with them.
2007-06-23 19:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by always51787 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends...I was keeping a journal when I met my wife...the night's entry read "I met a woman tonight and all my bachelor alarms were going off...I think this is the woman I'm going to marry." She didn't feel the connection the same way when we met, so it doesn't have to be mutual in the beginning. Yet, we've been married now for 27 years.
There are, however, those who feel lust-at-first-sight and confuse it for love. Each case is different, and for some, friends will never be true lovers, although former lovers could become friends. It is best to know the person you are going to marry before jumping into marriage, but I can personally vouch for the fact that love at first sight does exist.
2007-06-23 19:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Real love does not happen all of a sudden. When people say, "We fell in love the moment we met," they actually mean that each corresponded to a certain ideal image held by the other. Most of us create these ideals in our minds whether we realize it or not. Thus, when we find someone who looks, acts and talks the way we imagined this special individual would, we are attracted- but that's all it is. Love can develop, but it takes time.
2007-06-23 19:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by xoxcpxox 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is a hit and miss type of emotion. You can meet someone for the first time, and fall head over heels for them. If it works, then it is a good thing. Ya just have to roll the dice and take your chances.
2007-06-24 14:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by lytnyngryder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither are my personal choice but to choose i'll say long time frienship.
2007-06-23 19:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by tuttifruity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both or none
it depends on what happens in life
2007-06-23 19:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋