and each one of them is from a different dad, the mother doesnt take care of them properly. These kids are neglected, the mother doesnt work, yet she gets all this money from child support, and government. She cant keep home either.
2007-06-23 18:30:59 · 18 answers · asked by rorybellows 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
very few women like that actually get much at all in child support... and I say every childs father SHOULD support the children he has created.( I for one am a very GOOD mother and my son's father doesnt bother to pay support...so dont get me started there).. as to the mother.... she is probably perpetuating the life she knew growing up... I think it would be great if there were more organizations to step in and teach these women how to be good moms or help them to find good homes for their children...
I think this society needs to judge others less and offer help and understanding more...
2007-06-23 18:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberlie H 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why is it all about the mother? The dad's need to take responsibility for their children as well. It is just as much their doing as it is hers! The dads owe their children monetary support - if they don't want to create the possibility of having to pay child support, they should have kept their horse in the barn. If they can prove that their kids are being neglected by their mother, they need to take it up in the courtroom and "tell it to the judge". It doesn't say much about the dad's characters, either....the woman was good enough for them to bed, but now all of the sudden when they have to pay child support, she's a horrible person. Didn't the last man that had sex with her see all of those other kids and know she was getting money from the government, etc? He still saw her good enough to have sex with her, but all of the sudden she is trash because he has to pay child support. I think the mother needs some sort of professional counseling to help get her life straightened out and those "dads" need to quit whining and support their kids to the best of their ability. Suck it up. You play, you pay.
2007-06-24 01:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jitterbug 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just proves my point. Because you can have children that doesn't make you a parent. If you are a relative, maybe you can make a difference in the lives of these children. If you aren't a relative, just a friend, same goes for you. If you are a stranger to this woman and you feel the children are being neglected, you should call child services. Otherwise you should butt out.
2007-06-24 06:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's not right. But personally there isn't much you can do. You can report her.. then it is left up to the system. Would the kids be better in foster care? If so, report her to CPS. You could also try calling the local social services or CPS. However, the only people that is really going to hurt is the kids. Unfortunately, there are many women like that.
2007-06-24 01:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by NurseL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that their dads need to step up and take care of their kids. She isn't right, but she didn't do it herself. If you have real prove that she is neglecting her kids, call CPS and get those children out of their. It's not fair to the children to have a mother who isn't caring for them properly. Someone needs to get her some help.
2007-06-24 06:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have two children and both have different dads. i am still with my 2nd child's father, and he is a wonderful man. he treats my daughter (my first) just like his own. i dont get child support on my daughter, and im not on welfare. sounds to me like this chic is having babies for money. i dont think the question should be what people think about her, but what should be done about these poor kids. if i were you, id try talking to her first. in the conversation, i would let her know that you care and understand that she needs help, but that you are worried about the children and that you plan on calling social workers on her. if she changes, hooray for her! if not, id call social services right away. in the end she will be happy that someone cared enough about her and her kids to inquire.
2007-06-24 01:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
And where are the Dad's? Why aren't they helping out? Honestly, women can't win! If she aborts she's a murderer, if she has the children, and get's left to fend for herself, she's judged just as harshly.
If she works, she's neglecting them by not being there, if she doesn't work, she's negelcting them by not providing well enough - and I am quite sure that 'all this money' from Child support is not nearly enough - are you her banker?
How clean would your house be with a horde of kids in it and nobody to help you?
I don't know what I would do without my partner to help.
Walk a mile in her shoes...
Shad.
2007-06-24 01:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Personally l don't think she's a mother, just a woman who has had a lot of kids! Short but to the point, sorry!
2007-06-24 01:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by Sonja 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that she needs some help. Personally, I think that the men are responsible for this mess too. They are leaving their kids with her. Choosing to have kids with her. Sounds like a terrible situation.
2007-06-24 01:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by 354gr 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think she's awful, selfish and ignorant. Awful for not caring and being selfish, selfish for caring more for herself and not taking their true well being into consideration and ignorant for consciously choosing to not take the proper precautions to not get pregnant. She's lazy and embarassing to women. I feel bad for the poor children she raises and fear that they will grow up and follow some similiar or worse path.
2007-06-24 02:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋