I'm physically challenged and I'm also deaf. You will not find many deaf people type as well as I do.
I'm smart enough to lead my life towards satisfaction, but I am not strong enough to accomplish my goals.
Note that I'm in my early 20's and weigh less than 100 pounds. I know it sounds depressing. I've tried to date girls but failure kept following me around. Also, I've only been kissed throughout my entire life. I know it sounds scary.
I have sexual feelings just as any other healthy Human, but I have no one to share my sexual feelings with. Trust me, I've been trying for about 10 years.
I am VERY affectionate. I care about your wants and desire. I respect your feelings. I refuse to use expletives. I rarely get angry. I love to read books, watch TV, spend times around the PC, drive around, etc. I do not have a job; I can't find one. I am qualified for SSI but my paycheck causes nausea. I wish I could have gotten more.
Can my life get better?
2007-06-23 17:11:02 · 13 answers · asked by John 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Life can always get better. Go take some surfing lessons... it is the only thing that makes me happy; same for everyone that I teach it to.
It is simply incredible, and your size doesn't matter, which is one of the reasons surfing is so enjoyable - its a sport that everyone can participate in and get good at with practice... you don't need to bulk up, lose weight, eat right, do push-ups, etc.
Cheer up mate, and don't worry about the woman situation. Eventually, you will find the right one, and you will laugh at how much you used to fret about it.
2007-06-23 17:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you are really asking, but if you are serious, you will probably have better luck if you start spending time with people instead of on the computer. I believe that in this world there is someone for everyone and I am certain that there is someone out there who would just love to meet you and get to know you as a person. Join groups to do some form of volunteer work (might provide good job leads also), go to church if you are not already going, join community theatre groups etc. It sounds as if you mind is strong and you are able to communicate with others...so get out there and start getting to know people. Give it a try...your life is guaranteed to be better.
2007-06-24 00:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it can. You haven't found the right one that could make you feel better yet. I know she will come one day, my friend. Just face your life with smiles and expectations and don't think that life won't give you any disappointments because it will, as you know. You should eat more and always be happy so that you'll be more healthy. Remember that since you have brains, you can accomplish anything in life. If you need to talk to someone, find a trusted friend and tell them the things that makes you feel bad.
2007-06-24 00:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by Chensterrr. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your life can get better. I have everything you do except I'm not death or physically challenge but I still get no play. Your life can get better if you want it too. That person inside you will take you places you have never seen or been to. Your personality is what really matters and how you treat life. Treat life every day as it is your last and your life will get better. Only you know how to do that.
2007-06-24 00:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by joe bori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God has chosen this path for you John. He is the only One in the entire world that can literally completely satisfy you. You struggle just like the rest of us. Lust is a killer, it get's all of us. However, you could change your focus toward God and try to please Him. Understand that He created you in His image and likeness and intends to use you in mighty ways. YOU just have to let Him, open your heart to Him. It's alright to frustrated with Him but He's the only One who can console you in these hard times. He knows you better then you know you! And best of all He loves you beyond belief. He'll have mercy on you and restore you. Simply cry out to Him in anyway and ask Him to reveal Himself and who He is to you.
2007-06-24 00:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by stpolycarp77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Through Jesus you can find a purpose and meaning in your life. I'm not saying everything is going to get better, or its going to be a walk in the park but God loves you and died for your sins on the cross. If you accept him into your heart you will be saved and you can have a new purpose. To gloryfiy him in everything that you do, to worship him, to share his love and words with others.
God bless
2007-06-24 00:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by John 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know it can get better. It might not seem like it. But it can. And as far as looking for special someone..or just that someone.which ever you want. she'll be there for ya, Maybe not tonight, or tomarrow. But there'll be a time, when you aren't looking for that someone. and that someone will show up at your door step.
Shyra W.
2007-06-24 00:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by shyra w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it can get better and it will get better.Your only in your 20s.It will get better because you wont it to So there for you will make it better you have a lot of life a head of you What a difference a day can make.
2007-06-24 00:20:58 · answer #8 · answered by freddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things can always get better. They can also get worse, it's all about how you make it.
If you can type so well, why not get a job as a medical transcriptionist? Or go to college?
Good luck to you! ;0)
2007-06-24 00:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone's life can get better. You already have a better life than many people!
2007-06-24 00:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Potatohead 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋