I went out with this girl for 11 months, and just lost interest, tried and tried again to make it work, it just didn't work. I broke up with her and for 3 months since she won't leave me alone. I've been very civil about the whole thing, answering ever question I could. She still doesn't seem to get it, how can I tell her I'm really not interested, without hurting her too bad?
2007-06-23 16:29:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WITH "SOME PEOPLE"---YOU JUST HAVE TO BE BLUNT--"AND, TELL 'EM HOW IT IS---,OR, AS MAY BE THE CASE,"ISN'T"!!!
2007-06-23 16:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by LONG-JOHN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take her out for dinner, just to show her that you cared and you really did try to make it work with her, then look her straight in the eyes and softly tell her, that you really don't think you two are made for eachother and just nicely tell her whatever you feel and that you should stop seeing eachother. Good luck, it must be really uncomfortable being in that position.
2007-06-23 16:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by Makakouna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are not going to get out of this without hurting her too bad. Just explain to her that she deserves to have someone that is really into her and you are not that person.
2007-06-23 16:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Candi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with your feelings. Now it's hard, but it doesn't mean you're a bad guy, you just need to tell her how you feel straight up. It will hurt her, that's to be expected. But she will move on, and grow from it, get a new boyfriend, and in time, forget you ever existed and that's what needs to happen now.
2007-06-23 16:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by sandstone901 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be frank or if that doesn't work get a "pretend woman" (either a female friend / co-worker that she doesn't know) to let the ex know that your current "woman" doesn't appreciate the contact between the two of you.
2007-06-23 16:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Sanita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL she cant take a hint and i feel your gonna just have to come out with it just tell her straight forward i have movedd on and i suggest you do the same lol or just tell her to leave you alone
2007-06-23 16:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by arg314 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think her feelings have to be a non issue at this point...
you just have to stop answering her calls, texts or e-mails...she will get the hint eventually...
2007-06-23 16:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to the point but not too harsh....
2007-06-23 16:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind her that it just didn't work and that it is obvious that you and she are not meant to be.
2007-06-23 23:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by born 2 d-mn romantic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By ignoring that person. Unless she attempts to murder you,
2007-06-23 16:33:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋