Well i like this guy? i have a feeling that he likes me to. BUt i just wanted to know is it ok for me to ask him out. or is making him think i'm desperate.
2007-06-23 15:51:10 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it's okay. There's no law against it, and it's more than ok to thumb your nose at tradition.
2007-06-23 15:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys might feel awkward if you seem too forward.
Try something less threatening or low-key like:
A)
Hey, I've got these 2 tickets for (movie/play/concert/game),
would you be interested in going?
You don't need to explain that you bought the tickets.
B)
There's this neat little restaurant I've been wanting to try.
But I don't really want to go there by myself, interested?
You could say it's not the same going with girl friends.
C)
I'm going to this (art show/museum/exhibition) this weekend.
D)
Do you like (Flea markets/Farmers markets/Antique Sales)?
I usually pick up a lot a stuff, would you like to help carry?
2007-06-23 23:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Robert S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought the same thing. The homecoming dance was coming up and I didn't think it was appropriate for girls to ask guys, but I had a huge crush on this guy and my friend encouraged me to ask him out. And I did, and we've been dating for about four months now. So go for it. You'll never know if you don't try. And don't be afraid of rejection, I've been rejected before and you get over it and move on.
2007-06-23 22:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by blue_seal07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's perfectly okay for a girl to ask a guy out. Whether he thinks you're desperate or not might depend on how you ask him.
Me? I tend to drop flirtatious hints to indicate when I'm interested in a guy. Sometimes I get the idea whether he's interested or not. If he doesn't ask me out first, I have no problems asking him out. But I *never* make the first move. Don't know why, but that first kiss needs to be HIS move, not mine...
2007-06-23 22:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by tanibk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is especially OK for you to ask him out if you are a girl...
... There are many so-called social rules out there concerning dating and relationships but the truth of the matter is that none of them matter. It is how you feel that is important. There are way too many people out there looking to their peers to make decisions for them - if you want to do something and it is morally and legally correct then who the hell cares if it fits in with the social inhibitions of others?
Just remember that in the grand scheme of things, the Lemming does not voluntarily commit suicide en-mass, they simply follow another bright spark unwittingly to their doom. The moral of the story?
If you wouldn't put your finger in the fire because someone else told you to, why the hell would you follow their instincts on matters as important as relationships with which they are not involved?
2007-06-23 22:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by Greywolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!!! There is nothing wrong with that! IT is not like you are asking him to marry you. Go out and enjoy your life while you can, all he can say is NO, and that is not going to kill ya!! Go ahead, I have always been told when there is something in life that you want, you have to go out and get it!! NO MATTER WHAT!
2007-06-23 22:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If you are so worried about it, just don't make it so obvious it is a date. Try this: get two tickets to a concert or game, tell him you have an extra ticket and invite him to go.
2007-06-23 22:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Johan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go for it because if women can vote of course they can ask a guy out. if he likes you then you'll be doing him a favor by asking him out cuz he's probably just a bit shy.
2007-06-23 22:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by goin_crazi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out! Nothing wrong with that : ) Start small, if you feel like you need to -- ask him out for coffee or something, then go from there!
Good luck!
2007-06-23 22:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by Jelyol 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for it see if he feels the same way it wil not make u look desperate
2007-06-23 22:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋