To all women who hate all men, which I see a lot of on this forum. You say all men/BFs are terrible, and say all sorts of terrible things about men, do you think it is possible your taste in men brings such actions on yourself? It seems that many women like bad boys, and nice guys don't excite them much, do you think this keeps bringing you back to this abusive treatment and giving a nice nerdy guy might make you happier? I sincerely would like to know what you think of this idea?
2007-06-23 15:08:34 · 13 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know why we have such bad taste in men.
I don't hate men I just know that all the good ones are already taken.
By the time we realize how to tell the difference between the good ones and the bad ones it's too late and we're stuck with the mistakes we've already made.
Also most girls like myself grow up without a Dad and we have no way of knowing how to pick the right one because we have nothing to compare them to.
Or they grow up with an abusive father and since that's all they've ever known it's naturally what they look for when chosing a mate.
My father was in and out of the picture until I was 11 years old and he was extremely violent and abusive so of course when I started looking for a guy that's what I settled for because I didn't know any better.
But I didn't place all men into the same category as my father,I know not all men are like that.
There are allot of good ones out there I know who are strong and intelligent and wouldn't ever hurt anyone.
But they marry women from a good family background who have the same things in common with one another.
While women such as myself are left with the ones who chose to love the television more and have their own set of priorities that only involves themselves.
But that doesn't mean that I hate men.
I happen to like them more than women anyday.
2007-06-23 15:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's wrong to say horrible things about men unless they trully have been hurt by a male. To be honest I like nice guys instead of bad boys. I have the opposite effect but I can understand where you're coming at. Alot of girls at school go for the "cool" bad boys and they aren't put first alot of the time. I don't know if a nerdy guy would make me happy but we only have good looks for so long and then we can only judge people on their personality, happiness and niceness so I don't understand why some women judge men on just looks. It seems pointless.
2007-06-23 15:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by Gumby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women have a hard time breaking the cycle of bad men. I guess they just get use to abusive relationships and think that it is weird when a guy is nice. One of my sisters is that way. She refuses to date nice guys because she thinks that if they aren't arguing and he isn't hitting her then he doesn't really love her. It is sad but true. I personally would never stand for that kind of treatment. A man has to be kind, sensitive, and understanding or I won't have anything to do with him.
2007-06-23 15:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
women who seen to hate men so much are usually the ones who has been hurt terribly by a man she was really truly in love with and i know how that feel but i personally don't hate all men although i did try the lesbian thing and well it was just as bad as being with a man......women are too sensitive it actually made me wonder how the hell does men put up with it lol overall that was NOT for me
2016-05-18 22:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't hate all men. Women go through phases, as men do. We all get our heart broken, stepped on, etc. I'm sure the girls here don't literally hate men, they just want to caution other girls of the bad apples that are out there - because there are a lot.
2007-06-23 15:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, for me, I have liked bad boys, but usually i like sweet ones, but i dont think n e one would pick a nerd as there first choice. Oh yah and, if women hated men, y would they be obsessed with telling everybody about them? i think u should ask this question differently next time, be cuz i dont no about other girls, but the way u said that question offended me a tiny bit. thx! :)
2007-06-23 15:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by me. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooo... the whole point of why we are complaining is because we want someone BETTER than what we had in the past!
PS been out with 'nice' guys too... they STILL let me down - I can't seem to win! But i'm not giving up ... the path to true love not running smooth and all that...
2007-06-23 15:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by chandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well said!
I went from dating "bad boys" to a normal sweetheart that would do anything for me, and I married him about 1 year later! It makes you change your opinion of men, when you get a real man!
2007-06-23 15:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda Sue 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand what your saying. Some women play with fire and get burned. Then they blame all men for their bad decision. Not all men are bad. There are bad ones, but there are very good ones also!!
2007-06-23 15:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by LayLay 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been singing your same song for a long time now.And it seems women dont care/dont (want to)understand.Stop wasting your breath.
2007-06-23 15:14:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋