for college and her first car? I even promised her I would home school her if she was embarrassed to be pregnant during hugh school.
2007-06-23 14:54:33 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
She is not old enough.
"Most agencies I am familiar with have these
guidelines:
Egg Donors, 19 w/children already, 21 w/o
Traditional Surrogates, 21 w/ children
Gestational Surrogates, 21 w/ children and 25 w/o"
2007-06-23 15:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by norasmom 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps your daughter should be asking if she could be adopted by a human.
What a poor excuse for a woman you are. I have never heard something so worthless in my life.
To ask your daughter to sell her eggs, those are HER eggs, her future children. If SHE wants to do that to help another family or herself. That should be her choice. She shouldn't have her sorry excuse for a mother asking her to do that.
And to ask a 15 year old to Surrogate. Do you realize that the human body is not ready for that at 15. That there is a risk of death? Have you completely lost your Mother F*cking Mind???
What are you a crackhead wanting another fix?? Lets be honest here, you wouldn't be asking her to do this for HERSELF. You would be doing it. But YOU cant, because of your dependence or the diseases you carry.
Do yourself and her a favor. If you have any touch of a mother inside you, turn yourself into child services and allow her to be with a family who will love her and take care of her the way she deserves. Because you are doing it all wrong and there is NO excuse for your actions.
If you want your daughter to have a car to take you to your drug classes, go get a job and help her pay for one.
If you want her to go to college, stop ******* her up and let her be a kid. Without a education she ain't going to get into college anyhow.
2007-06-23 22:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by OnyX S 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have a better idea...since you think selling eggs or being a surrogate is an excellent way to pay for college and her first car, YOU DO IT! I find it appalling that you would make such a suggestion.
There are many options for paying for college. Teach her to focus on her academics and get good grades so that she can qualify for scholarships. She can work summers and weekends and save a portion of her earnings to put towards college. Once she is applying to college, she can apply for financial assistance-there are a number of grants, loans and work programs out there.
As for the car, she can get a job to pay for that. It is not a necessity, and it teaches a teenager a lot in regards to responsibility to have to work for it (including insurance, maintenance, gas, etc).
If you still want answers to your original question, please call your local Department of Social Services and pose this question to them. They will know what to do.
2007-06-24 00:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by StayAtHomeMomOnTheGo 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well well well where to start........
Firstly I don't know where you are but here the legal age for sex is 16yrs.
WHY on gods earth would you want to "PIMP" your own daughter and put her health at risk by making her have babies while she's still a chlid herself.
Also here you have to be under 34 but to have finished having your own family before you can donate eggs as the process can leave you infertile (again why would you wish that on your child).
I think the best promise you can give your child is that you will give her up.
This has to be a joke or you are one sick peverted parent who doesn't deserve to have chlidren themselves.
If you cared one bit about your daughter you would be getting off your own lazy **** and getting a better job so YOU the parent can support your child instead of suggesting such things.
2007-06-24 00:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon P 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
rather than trying to convince her to be a surrogate (i highly doubt anyone would have a 15 year old as a surrogate, most people like someone who has had a previous, successful, pregnancy) you can encourage her to get straight A's, study hard for her SAT's, and get a job. babysitting pays really well these days if youre in the right area, and its under the table.
a car isnt a necessity and shouldnt be a priority over college.
2007-06-23 22:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by AK 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You can't. First, a person has to be 21 to do either. Second, you have to have had at least 1 child to be a surrogate.
She can pay for college and a car with a job and a loan, like lots of people do every day.
2007-06-23 22:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by ryet_grrrl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
SERIOUSLY??? What?????....her donating her eggs can cause infertility later on in life!!! You would risk the chance of your child being able to have children later???... and you cant do it until you are at least 18.....you want your young child to carry a child that isnt hers? that would be tough emotionally on any kid, even if they are mature for their age....and if she did and you home schooled her, her education might be compromised, and a lot of state colleges are harder to get into when you are home schooled.
Also, if you want her to go to college, why doesnt she just work hard in school and try to get good grades and try to get scholarships...and there are tons of scholarships on the website scholarships.com that give small or large scholarships for college....also she can always take out loans that she can pay off when she has a college education...when i was in college, i had to take out a loan...and i am taking out loans to pay for Grad school...but when i get done, i will make a lot more money so then i can pay them off....I CANNOT believe that you would risk your childs fertility, or encourage her to carry someone elses child when she is a child herself so she can get a car!!! Why doesnt she just get a job when she turns 16?...or, i know people who never got a car in high school, and went to college, and didnt have a car, and when they graduated from college, they got their own car.....this is ridiculous....what kind of mother would want their child to do this.....wow. i am just shocked!...and honesly appalled at this!!!!
2007-06-23 23:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by Stormy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What? This is a joke right? There are others ways to help her get into college, scholarships, financial aid, grants etc. Dont meddle w/ your daughter's life like that. Use your own body to be a surrogate mother.
2007-06-23 22:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by Erica 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let her apply for financial aid. It is ridiculous to try to convince a 15 year old girl to be a surrogate mother (and may be illegal). Let her be a child while she still has some childhood left.
2007-06-23 22:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I feel really, really sorry for her--to have a mother like you. At 15 she is still more child than woman. She should be removed from your home, and if I knew who you were, I would see that was done. By the way, who schooled you? I hope she gets better teaching, because you can't even spell!!
2007-06-23 21:59:08 · answer #10 · answered by uscitizen 3 · 7⤊ 1⤋