this guy believes this rumor about me so he blew me off. the rumor is that I dont like him and I only date black people not that there is anything wrong with that it is just he isnt black so how do I tell him it is a lie and why did he believe it?plese help me need fast answers if possible!!!!!
2007-06-23 14:20:50 · 6 answers · asked by island gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do like him
2007-06-23 14:21:36 · update #1
Assure him that the rumors are just that---rumors.Tell him you like him and would like to pursue a friendship.However, I want you to make sure he does not dislike black people or that might create problems for you if you have black friends. If there is the possibility that he does ,it might explain why he blew you off without the chance to defend yourself against the rumors. I wish you all the best.
2007-06-23 14:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him it was a stupid rumor and it's not true. If he doesn't believe you then he'll never trust you about anything and he's not worth your time.
2007-06-23 14:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by Pretty in Pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that what he heard was not true.
And that he seems like an awesome guy.
Mention that you'd really like to get to know him and you would like to hang out some time, just the two of you.
2007-06-23 14:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...the only thing u can do is tell him the truth...that the rumors are lies and if he believes them, he needs to learn how to trust u!
2007-06-23 14:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. If he's really a good guy, worth your time, worth dating/having a relationship with...then he'd be willing to talk and listen and would certainly hear you out AND believe you.
And...if he really likes you---he'd want to talk, listen, and believe you.
Good luck, take care.
2007-06-23 14:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, just forget the guy and move on, its just a person. unless if you like the guy, then you be brave and talk to him straight up.
2007-06-23 14:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋