about me and the guy i'm involved with..
when we first got to know each other..he never got jealous..& i would purposely bring up other guys to see if he would get jealous but he never did..& i somewhat felt like he didn't care..because i would get jealous whenever girls were flirting with him and everything..
now that we have gotten closer and are "in love"..and if i bring up someone famous that i like..he gets jealous..some people would be like "oh well too much jealousy is a bad thing"
but he not jealous to the point where he wants to kill someone or make me change my ways or something..
i think its cute..and shows that he cares for me & wants me..
& its not like i have low self esteem or something..i know that
i don't know if that is the right way to feel about it though..
most of my friends say that they would hate their boyfriend to be jealous..
i like it..sometimes i think i feel this way because when i get jealous..i think he should be jealous too..
weird or no..?
2007-06-23 14:12:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for people that say i am playing mind games..
we do the same thing..its like while we are watching tv and someone we likes comes on..
if you say i'm playing games, then isn't he doing the same thing..?
its not like we take it to heart..and think this celebrity 293874923 miles away is gonna get in the way of our relationship...
2007-06-23 14:24:50 · update #1
Sometimes I feel the same. You want to know your guy cares enough about you to get jealous. Don't try so hard to make him jealous, it just might turn him off. && my personal opinion is don't try to get him jealous of people he actually knows. Try celebrities, just so he never gets that doubt in his head you might cheat and get with his best friend.
2007-06-23 14:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by ekrjektkn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as u don't purposely try to make him jealous anymore, then i don't consider it weird. I was like that with all my other previous boyfriends... I loved the feel of control, and the fact i could make them feel like that. Then i met my now fiance. I had no desire to make him jealous and i actually hate it when he does get jealous. Altho the odd time or two he gets jealous it feels kinda good, lets me know he still loves me as much as he used too...
2007-06-23 14:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definitely do not think it is weird. I think it is important if a man is jealous for the woman he loves especially from the eyes of other men, but you do not want him to be jealous to the point of obsession. That is when it becomes scary.
2007-06-23 14:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by swd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he be jealous of someone that you probably never meet?! I think it more that iut annoys him when you bring up that you "like" that celebrity...that your BF probably wonders if he isn't good enough and how can he compete with a celeb??? Immature.
2007-06-23 14:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by CAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your weird and are playing mind games with your bf when you have a relationship based on games like that it never works out quite like you had hoped if that were me I would think this girl is kind of slutty bringing tons of guys over and wouldent care or be jealious cause your not my type
2007-06-23 14:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is an ugly dog to bring up if they do that i would run. its not love and its not good you cannot trust them therefore that is why you are like that and it can rear its head anytime. its bad and can cause alot of problems which aren't there find another solution and get rid of it.
2007-06-30 14:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting jealous in natural but to much can be bad on so many
levels. and all it leads to is trouble
2007-06-23 14:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by love to help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lov it when guys are jealous. not too jealous but kinda the way that urs is. he seems lik he cares about u but isnt going overboard. he seems lik hes got the perfect amount of jealousy
2007-06-23 14:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Truthfully, its not nice to mess with people like that emotionally.
alright according to ur edit earlier u both do it so i take wat i said back
i think its fine to use in this manor if its a form of flirting
the kind of jealousy God doesnt like is the angry kind
2007-06-23 14:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by supermancoup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is wrong to like jealousy, because even small jealousy can turn into something else
2007-06-23 14:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋