at the end of 4th grade i got prego w/ my son jordan(i have precocious puberty). his dad's parents disowned him so he has been living at my house since then. my parents made our basement into a mini apartment. me, anthony(my boyfriend/jordan's dad), and jordan live down there. we are pretty independent now. when i got prego with jordan, my parents and i decided it would be best for me to take 5th grade off(he was born in september). anthony went ahead and did 5th grade. i am 17 now and anthony is barely 18. he just graduated high school. i am a senior now. i go to a christian school, so they dont let prego people there(or people who have been prego). me and my parents decided to mark down jordan as their child and not mine(so i could still go to that school). jordan knows and he is fine w/ it and all. is that wrong? you know, that were lying about his parents?
2007-06-23 13:06:54 · 26 answers · asked by Alyssa 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
precocious puberty:
A condition in which the changes associated with puberty begin at an unexpectedly early age, often caused by a pathological process involving a glandular secretion of estrogens or androgens.
just in case you were wondering ^
i was 10
after i graduate we are changing what it says about his parents
2007-06-23 13:21:23 · update #1
It is wrong. Have more integrity than that. Tell your parents that you will not lie or try to "get around" the rules. The only reason you asked the question is because you know it's wrong.
I trust you are about to do the right thing.
2007-06-23 13:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Answer Man 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
You obviously are not comfortable with it or you would not be asking complete strangers. Why can't complete custody go to Anthony? He is the boys dad. That aside I am so proud of both of you for making something of your lifes. It sounds like you are both making a very good effort to get on your feet. I too was a young mom "15" and there is nothing that you will ever do that is as hard as what you have gone through in the last 6-7 years. Trust me it gets better. It is amazing that Anthony is still by your side after all this time. I am 26 now and happily married with a good carreer. My son now 11 remembers everything that we went through together and completely understands. No matter what you do as long as you show the boy love, he will respect all of your decisions and be a better man for it. THANK YOU for taking care of your kid!
2007-06-23 20:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by curious 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you may have had sex and got pregnant at the age of 10, says a LOT about you and your parents. More about you.
1. Your parents probably didn't think they had anything to worry about since you were just a child, but you betrayed their trust and had sex. Didn't you feel like it was wrong at the time?
or
2. You made this whole thing up. Which means you don't have a life and no friends and are just trying to get a reaction.
2007-06-28 19:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow,wow.wow. I'm kind of speechless here. Ok what's done is done. Now you have to be very careful when you sign your child's rights over to your parents. Do you trust them to sign your child back to you once your schooling is over? They obiviously care a great deal about you and to take your boyfriend in says alot. Yet you never know. Is their going to be a conflict about what is best for your child? Plus must you really have to go to a
christian school. Can't you go to a public one instead. They aren't as strict as the christian schools about you being a mother. I'm happy for you on succeeding in school and your almost done w/ high school. You and your boyfriend should be very proud of yourselves. Even though you had to grow up faster than others you seem like a very responsible person and I'm sure you are a great mom too. Hats off to your parents for supporting you in every way. Just really think before you decide. Sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do.
2007-06-23 21:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by Erica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually no I don't really think there is really anything wrong with it, that school should not be so damn discriminative. I think it is great that you want an education to make a better life for you and your family...I hope that you go to college as well. As long as Jordan knows who his mom and dad are and your parents know and recognize that as well I don't see a problem with it. Best of wishes for your family.
2007-06-23 20:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it's wrong at all. You have to do whats going to provide the best future for you and you child. I think you have shown a huge amount of maturity in staying in school and getting an education and I think what you are doing right now(lying to the school about whos child he is) is just another example of that maturity because you know you will get a better education and be able to provide a better future for him....GL with everything!!!
2007-06-23 20:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW 4Th grade???? that is unbelievable to me. If the school has not found out about it so far what is your big concern? Better to have them think what they do and finish your education in a better school than the public ones. As long as your son realizes that lying is not good and should not be a common practice I wouldn't feel too guilty about it.
2007-06-28 18:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jordan should have been adopted by your parents to begin with. You were no where ready to raise a kid in the 4th grade I don't care how "mature" you were.
WHAT were you doing having sex that early in the first place?!? Goodness.
No it isn't wrong, he needs to go to school.
2007-06-23 20:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would not worry about it a second. Just keep continuuing your education, maintaining a harmonious environment for your family, and try to save 2000. a year in a vanguard mutual fund.
2007-06-23 20:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by glen_loves_fun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as Jordan is ok with it, I don't think there's anything wrong with it....it's hard being a young parent...I'm glad your parents are so supportive.
2007-07-01 13:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋