She asked me if it was ok with me nd im not gonna break up. Should i tell her im not ok wit it or just say go ahead and trust her? Also i dont even know who he is!!! HELP!
2007-06-23 13:05:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust her...trust is important =]. Just make sure she knows what things you can stand see them doing together & what you can't.
2007-06-23 13:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her u trust her..but act like u care, dont give her 2 much freedom. ask her why she wants 2 b friends wit him n if da reason is gud enough say ok baby but if its not den say baby i trust u but i dont trust him, i dont even know him
2007-06-23 20:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I was in that very situation. I wanted to be friends with my ex and my boyfriend (now husband) didn't want my to talk to him. At first I didn't understand why I couldn't.. But everytuime I did talk to him my boyfriend at the time who I will refer to as hubby, felt really sad. I eventually concluded that it was selfish of me to want to do that. Hubby said guys have other intentions for holding on to someone. He was right.. he said things like how he missed me and other things. He was right. I didn't talk to him again. It just was not fair of me to behave like that. He didn't go around talking to his ex's and I put myself in his shoes and I probably would have been jealous if he did. So I htink you should tell her that it isn't fair of her to do that. She needs to make a choice between which guy she wants to be with.
2007-06-23 20:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of a cheap thing to do to a guy.
I've had problems with my own girlfriend wanting to be around her unsavory ex in the past.
2007-06-23 20:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that if she wants to chill with her ex boyfriend then she has to do it while you are present.
2007-06-23 20:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by Marie Jane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋