why do guys act different after they get you?

Answer 1

They work so hard to get us, then don't really know how to care for us when they've got us, do they? Nobody taught them right, and they're too proud (or lazy) to find out. We settle for less so easily, is it any wonder?

Answer 2

I think once a guy knows that a girl is now interested in only them, it may give a since of relief because when a guy truly likes a girl and wants her in his life sometimes it can be a challenge. And it can depend on what the situation is that involves the girl. If she is currently in a relationship, just leaving a relationship or completely single, there will be certain things to consider. I would hope that if a guy puts time into pursing or involving himself with a young lady that he will act differently in positive ways. After a guy knows a girl is indeed interested, he can relax and enjoy the relationship. The only difference in the way a guy should act, should be in making sure they make her happy, that way they never have to worry about someone else "getting" her.

Answer 3

Well because the chase if over and they have you now...but maybe girls do the same thing. I dont think it's fair that we expect the guys to always do all the romantic stuff...girls should too. People get a bit lazy in relationships maybe...but really it's because the guy is trying to impress you and once you're his he probably doesnt feel the need to anymore. Some women are the same way...after marriage they might not do their hair all the time or wear any make up around their husband or not work out as much...husbands too.

Answer 4

At first its a chase and they want to impress you. Once they have you they dont think they have to as much anymore. Or some guys just use you to get what they want and dont care because it was all just a game to begin with.

Take sometime for yourself, give him sometime to miss you. Surprise him, flirt with him and look at yourself are you acting any different to him now that your together.

It may help to sit down and talk to him if you feel it is a big problem. If this doesnt help its time to move on. A guy that really cares about you will care about how you feel. good luck.

Answer 5

They don't. They act different while they get you. Then it's back to the way they normally act. That is why you should never ever rush into anything. Date for a long time so you can see what he is like. And be yourself also. It's a waste of everybody's time to try to act like something you'r not.

Answer 6

Because people want what they cant have. The chase is exceiting! the passion that is to come, the kisses not yet had, the waiting by the phone to get the call. And when they finally have you ... well the chase is over. Now it is basically at the maintenence stage. like a poor person with a used car. Ignore it until something goes wrong.

Answer 7

Some guys and girls put up a false front to lure people in after they lure the person they were after in they slowly take it down with out realizing it showing themselfs for who they truly are and to see if that person will still like them even for who they are not what they seen at the start of the realtion ship.

But to sum it up there's no need to keep pretending when youve got what you were after.

Answer 8

I don't know, why do women start acting differently after they get a man?

Answer 9

They feel more comfortable once they get you. If he acts different by being mean or physical, RUN. Most guys know what to say to get a girl to like them, and after they get them, they become themselves.

Answer 10

Because "you" are usually the one who lets them change!
You have to continue doing "what" you did to get Him, In order to keep HIM. Know what I Mean? Do not get Into A Rut>>>>>or Let Him Get Bored> Be exciting!
(Smile) "Never Take Him For Granted"