Does anyone else know what it's like to be lonely?

Question

Or what it's like coming home from work and no one is there? Or what it's like to watch couples walking down the street and wish it was you? Watching everyone you went to school with get married and have to make excuses when you see them why you're not? Does the "because I like being single" excuse seem to be getting old and lonely? Do you sometimes wonder if you're cursed to be alone and walk this rough road of life alone? Well if you haven't experienced any of these feelings, consider yourself very fortunate. I experience them everyday! It's not because I haven't tried to get a date. Everything I do fails! I'm good looking, but it seems pointless. Maybe my life is pointless. I honeslty doubt it would make a difference to anyone if I weren't here. I'm just a little bast***

Thanks guys! All of your answers were great, but I can only pick one. I wish I could pick all of you!

Answer 1

I think everyone feels like this every once in a while. I know I have. It will pass. Don't let it drag you down to the point where you lose hope. I know it sounds like a cliche' but I do find that the whole "the darkest hour is the hour before dawn" thing is true. Ride it out and don't give up, keep trying new ways of meeting people and surround yourself with friends (or make new ones). Sometimes a really simple thing can completely turn your life around.

Answer 2

I've been there. But when I looked inside myself, I learned that I must be happy alone before I could truly be happy as a couple. I had a few relationships & tried to make something work but it just didn't. Then I started enjoying my time alone. I got to grow & really feel good about myself. If you find yourself lonely at times. Go out, do some karaoke, that's always fun & you can meet others. I didn't get married until I was 32 and my family & friends thought I'd never get married. I thought the same thing too and I was OK with it. I don't want to sacrifice myself just so I wouldn't be lonely. That sets you up for abuse. When you do meet someone choose wisely & never get into a relationship to be in a relationship. Let it develop. Good luck.

Answer 3

It seems that you are letting your environment get the best of you.One quit thinking about being alone and put your attention on being with someone. Now that your attention is on someone you can help yourself.One if you are very picky it will take longer.But put yourself out there.Sometimes you have to leave your surroundings to be with someone.And another thing you are not a failure.You are a product of what you speak.When you wake up in the morning I want you to say "I will succeed my life has meaning"say this at least ten times when you wake up every morning. Because if you are looking for dirt you will never find the gold. Now go for it.

Answer 4

omg pls dont think that way.. maybe its time to change the way you approch life.. in stead of wanting and dreaming how about taken things into action and trying. Meaning be more outgoing with women and try asking a few out.. see how it goes (obviously ask 1 at a time) and be commited to them and be the gentlmen which i bet you are.. and enjoy yoursef.. stop wishing and start making your dreams come true. Stop thinking your worthless when your totally not. Think about it you have a job... you have a home... and you seem to be a nice guy.. plus your good lookin what girl wouldnt want that.. plz be more confident in yourself and others will start to see it.. see yourself as (the last man on earth) and dress to impress.. smile.. be kind and the righ girl will come cralling too you... remember fate only leads you soo far up on till that point the rest is your doings...

(you will find out what i mean later)

best of wishes kesha..

Answer 5

You're not the only good looking, lonely dude, some people get rejected, some are afraid of being hurt again, some people are spoiled and have everything, some people are poor and have nothing

either way we all have this question which we can't answer

to your question, yes, there are a lot of people out there alone.

The natural man has only two primal passions, to get and to beget.

Answer 6

Maybe you are too picky about who you date if so stop that. You aren't a little bast***( I don't guess) You need to quit feeling sorry for yourself and get out there and mingle. Who gives a sh1t about people you went to highschool with, you don't owe them any explanation! Get off the computer and get out there and MINGLE TONIGHT! And yes we've all been lonely before. Good luck!

Answer 7

I might be younger than you ,but I know how you feel too well.. I just try to look on the bright side of things...sure they are married, but they have to stick with one person... and Im sure you will find someone... I mean there is always that person for everyone........Just try to be a little more optamistic about it.. and Im ur you are not a little bast****.... you just have to have faith... *hugs*.. Keep your head held high ... everything will work out...

Answer 8

i'm sure there is a nice pretty, honest intelligent girl/woman out there and trust me it won't be long before you get together. I understand your loneliness as i have been for a while. whenever i get a date someone messes it up for me,so there you go you're not lonely one in this world. I hope it works out for you lol

Answer 9

Im widow and still looking, I rather picky and happy than miserable, regret, hurt, dating with wrong one. Nothing wrong with single happy , healthy and wealthy? Right? Enjoy life as you can. It is normal to be lonely sometime.Just keep busy

Answer 10

awww, that's soo sad. and don't worry, every single person out there feels the exact same way. jus realize that u don't NEED any 1 in ur life, u jus WANT some 1. stay focused in ur job and family, and i promise that the right 1 will come around. =) jus be patient.