Hi there...
I've been dating this incredibly sweet, sensitive guy for about 4 months now (we've been friends for about 9) and I've just got back from spending the most amazing weekend with him. In intimate moments...I long to hear those 3 words...as scary as it is, I believe that I love him. He is such a perfect gentleman and lover and is always doing things to make sure I'm okay. I just don't want to make a fool of myself and say it if he doesn't feel the same. Is there any way that I can be sure...any signs that any men can give me that a man is in love? I do feel he is but I'm not too sure...
When he holds me, it's so gentle and loving and he hugs me in public...holds hands...strokes my arm in restaurants...asks me if I'm okay...talks about doing other things together at weekends...tells me im wonderfully sexy...
I got upset just being apart from him today...
Thank you xx
2007-06-23 11:11:31 · 15 answers · asked by Synergy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you need to get out of the early infatuation station before you can know for sure. Wait another 8 months.
2007-06-23 11:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, think about it. He holds you and is gentle, loving, hugs you, holds your hand, and does all those other things... wouldn't you think he is in love?
One other way is to tell him you love him and to see what he says back. If he doesn't say anything back don't feel like your a fool just wait a little more and ask him, or just look for clues.
2007-06-23 18:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by Roberto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look u are a female and everyone know that females catch feeling really quickly but u also know that men love the chase so wut im sayin is keep your feeling inside just feel u will know when a man is in love with u cuz when he tells u but a man like make surprises so if he dont surprise u then maybe its not like that but just make him chase u dont be to quick to express your feelings and trust me it will work out in the end if u really want it to holla.
2007-06-23 18:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds positively perfect. Is he real? Are you sure he is not some creature from outer space? Can you clone him? Tell him you are madly in love with him, hang on to his legs as he tries to leave the room....lol. Actually play hard to get and aloof. Men love that......
2007-06-23 18:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by zento1110 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" He sounds positively perfect. Is he real? Are you sure he is not some creature from outer space? Can you clone him? Tell him you are madly in love with him, hang on to his legs as he tries to leave the room....lol. Actually play hard to get and aloof. Men love that......" <------ no we dont.
just be an adult and lay your cards on th table
2007-06-23 18:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by skrilla gorrilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 months isn't thatlong wait a while and take it slow, i love you is a very powerful statement and has a lot of meaning in it, do use it carefully, and dont wait for him to say it, if you truely believe that you love him (although its only been 9 months) tell him yourself in romantic setting, then he's sure to say ' i love you too'.
2007-06-23 18:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you. But as many women all over there is times you have lacks of confidence and insecurity. Don't. He loves you, love him and be happy. That a very very important thing in a females beauty.
2007-06-26 20:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jesús Ernesto Miguel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t worry hun, if you guys are dating and doing all that he definitely loves you. Sometimes guys want girls to do the important move first since they did everything to get you. They want the result which is saying I love you.
2007-06-23 18:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by Nana ♥ ღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2007-06-23 18:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by HSTERN 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go down to the police station and ask to rent their polygraph machine.
2007-06-23 18:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋