my boyfirend is a stoner and i cant get him to do ne thing what should i do?

Answer 1

hes a loser... you should leave him

Answer 2

Well, you chose him. I assume he was a stoner when you met. If that's the case, then you're pretty much stuck, because no one likes to be told that they have to change. What exactly do you want him to do, though? Do you live together and you need him to complete his Honey-Do list? Or do you just want him to leave the couch every once in awhile and go out with you?

If the first one, again, you're kind of stuck. Well, unless you "accidentally" break some of his glass while cleaning. "See, honey, you know how much this was worth, why don't you take care of cleaning this spot next week?"

If the second, choose events that stoners like. Outdoor concerts, clubs with lax rules, and a lot of free events.

Answer 3

I had a boyfriend like that. I dumped him for that reason among others. Smoking weed equals a lack of ambition. The guy will be a loser until he quits. Most stoners just carry on being stoners forever. Another concern is the undesirable people he has to hang with to get it. Be careful if he is bringing pot into your home or car. You could get busted for his bad habit.

Answer 4

Try talking to him and let him know what the consequences are if he decides to keep doing drugs. If he is unwilling to get help and stop then as hard as it may be, you will have to move on to someone who can make you a better person. If he is willing to stop and is willing to get help then he made need your support and you may find that your relationship will get stronger. But dont just go off of broken promises that I will get help soon. Be supportive up to the point that it does not require you to compromise the quality of person you are.

Answer 5

some people are just stoners like that. they just wanna get high and watch tv all day long or play video games. sounds like you need someone a bit more outgoing...get with a social drinker next time. that will have you out the house more than you'd like. hahah. or hey, you could just join him and setup your on lazy boy chair.

Answer 6

Seriously, dump him. Of course you may also try him to give up drugs. I am not saying its wrong to smoke a joint every now and then, but smoking pot makes people apathetic and boring. If you cant talk him into stopping to be a pothead, dump him. Do not join in. Smoking pot isnt as unproblematic as it may seem at first.

Answer 7

Start going out without him, meet new people, and once he gets jealous and insecure he'll start tagging along. As far as the stoner part goes you can't mold a person how you want them, its up to them to change theirself.

Answer 8

Tape a stick to his head and attach his drugs to the other end, film him trying to get them then tell him everytime he takes drugs post 5 seconds of that footage on the internet.

Answer 9

Been there done that he has no goals and no future unless he wises up. Pot is good from time to time but he sounds like his whole life revovles around smoking or whatever. give him a choice or give him no choice at all.

Answer 10

Leave his *** immediately if the only thing he does is drugs he is not worth to squirts of duck **** he does not want anything if all wants is drugs and think about it even if you are not on drugs look at what kind of damper this is putting on your image

Answer 11

Be honset with him. Say "I used to like doing things with you, but now it seems like you're just not you anymore and I miss that person." Then, see if he'll get some help. If not, then I'd move on.