My ex-boyfriend abused me for the first time and i called the cops on him. He in turn made everyone think i did him something wrong and tried to get me fired from my really excellent job. During the relationship i felt like he was cheating and after the relationship ended the feeling was even strong. I was very hurt by this situation b/c i was really nice to him and cared about him very much but he did me soooooo wrong. Because he bought the situation to work and made me seem like i'm someone i'm not, i am now very uncomfortable when i come to the job. Every since we broke up i have been questioning if i did something wrong or not b/c it seems as if bad things have been happening to me and it seems as if i'm being punished. He seems to be happy and have moved on, he has a better job than me, and he recently purchased a new house and i am very unhappy. Why does it seem like i am being punished and he is being blessed and he did something wrong and i didnt?
2007-06-23 08:49:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You need to find out who you are in Christ. People will falsly accuse you to ruin your life on purpose. And if you learn who you are in Christ, then you don't have to be afraid of what others say falsely of you. What is most important is what God says about you.
People even get away with murder by falsely accusing someone who is innocent. It is a tactict of the devil that is an old one. Sad to say, my one child could falsely accuse sister, to get away with doing it herself.
I remember in a restaurant I had been accused of stealing $100. After I wasn't working there, it was found out that the manager was the one who was taking the $. Accusing different employees all the while. So, I know what you are writing about.
But, recognizing that God loves you & will never leave or forsake you, will give you love & joy in the thought. So? Just start praying thanking God for loving you.
Pray for your ex.
2007-06-23 09:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by LottaLou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not being punished and he is CERTAINLY not blessed. This really isnt a R&S question but I will answer anyways. Your EX is a typical abuser. That is what they do. Of corse he has moved on, if he cared for you he would not have done what he did. Dont worry about the people at work. You are not there to have friends, you are there to get AHEAD IN LIFE. Dont let him mess that up too. Just be glad that you are rid of his @$$!
2007-06-23 16:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so know how you feel, only mine was not a boyfriend but a close friend who was like a sister to me. She lives next door to me, and this started over a year ago. Try your best to move on and ignore that he even walks the earth. Karma will take care of it, and things will come back around. Ia have done this, and now if I walk outside she won't come out of the house or she will go inside.
2007-06-23 15:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by becca7396 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you have been blessed with situations that showed the true nature of this person. The hardest thing but the best thing is to forgive him and ask God to reveal to you your short-comings. Then and only then can you be forgiven of your transgressions and you will find peace. God doesn't have an abuser as your mate for life. Sometimes when we stray away from the will of God things unpleasant happen, I believe it is Gods nudge to come back in to fellowship with Him. Get on your knees and Ask God to forgive you and you will be well on your way to the perfect will of God in your life and you will find peace and fulfillment there.
God Bless
2007-06-23 17:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lin B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just unlucky.
2007-06-23 15:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋