Should you ask if they don't want to talk to you anymore, or should you just be patient, not say anything else, and let them talk when they're ready or when they want to talk to you? I'm just wondering.
2007-06-23 08:05:49 · 25 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I should ask if I said something wrong, or if I did something
2007-06-23 08:09:42 · update #1
hey you...is this about the girl that hasn't answered you back in, I think you said, two weeks?
Sweetie, there are tons of fish in the sea...why are you obsessing over this one, if she isn't answering you - like I told you in a previous post, you got your answer...just move on.
All you do is look like an insecure, lonely, obsessive strange guy if you keep persisiting.
2007-06-23 08:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go with be patient, just give them time to settle and get there head straight. Go a couple days without making contact then one day just out of the blue, call them and if they answer and seem that everyting is cool, then your good. If not then im sorry. But time cures most problems. Oh, and when you do call, dont bring anyting up that involves the situation nor the fact that you wernt sure if they wanted to talk to you or not.
GL
2007-06-23 08:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by gtrac3r93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation.
If there was an arguement then id suggest asking if they are ok with you but if not, then just wait.
This all depends on the sort of person you are and how friendly you are with this person.
Personally id prefer to know where i stand!
Theres nothing worse than not talking to someone, esp if they are close to you.
Sometimes there might be a legitimate reason for not contacting but i guess you never find that out unless you talk to the other person.
On the flip side, i didnt speak to my brother for 2 years, i was the one not talking......so i just sit here contridicting myslef!!! ha ha
2007-06-23 08:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has e mail or fb then deliver her a comfortable, polite message asking what's incorrect. deliver it to all attainable addresses and money owed she has. in simple terms say which you have have been given common one yet another an prolonged time and you do no longer think of this is honest that she in simple terms shrink you off. If she would not get returned to you, then she's of course no longer a competent chum, yet provide her the earnings of the doubt for the 2nd, in simple terms in case somebody exceeded directly to the excellent beyond or she's sick or some thing that's no longer her fault.
2016-10-18 11:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them for a little while, you will miss them, but dont let them know. show slight signs of losing interests in things, or express more interest in music, use the music to release ur feelings and maybe even pick out a song that exacty marks how you feel, ask a friend of urs that is close to tell this friend about the song and how maybe enemies dont last forever,
watever happens try to rise after a fall. u will make it, dont drown in a river or burn in fire, for u can find other friends to help u lov the envionment
2007-06-24 07:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on the person and reason why you think they stopped talking. But it wouldn't hurt to ask, just dont become annoying with it. Give em some space too.
2007-06-23 08:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's exactly my situation: we didn't have a conflict. in fact, she told me we were fine just before she started ignoring me and stopped even making eye contact. She's going through a divorce and had been handling it fine until recently. things just blew up and I got burned, though I did nothing whatsoever to deserve her treating me like dirt. So, I just try not to lash out and let it go. she may come back, she may not but we have to move on. It sucks when women assure us they will be straight; not ignore us but always be honest and then do exactly what they said they would not do.
2007-06-23 08:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Think about if yous aid anything that could offend them or anything like that. If you did, leave it for a while and then ask them.
But if you don't know why they have stopped talking to you, ask them about it.
2007-06-23 08:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by I ♥ Skinny Jeans 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I vote for asking..specially if you feel you did nothing wrong. At least by asking you know where you stand plus you may get some closure to help you move on...
2007-06-23 08:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason that they stopped talking to you. Try contacting that person and if they don't respond then I would say that they don't want to be bothered.
2007-06-23 08:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋