I have been friends with a guy named Alexander since December, he has already graduated from college, is very smart, attractive, the whole works. And a fun friend to hang out with. It was never the right time for me to make a move on him for the past six months until a couple weeks ago, and we started really hanging out, and we slept together a few times. I was already looking for a job in Atlanta, and then when I get home one day, he tells me that he moved to Atlanta today, because he got a call for a job, and he was sorry that he didn't tell me bye, etc... It crushed me. I have put in a request with my job to be transferred to Atlanta, which it's going well. The thing is, I want to be with him when I go up there, but I don't know how to let him know that. HELP!!!
2007-06-23 08:01:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
JUST TELL HIM!!!!
Trust me, im a guy. . . .and if my girlfriend told me that. . .. id be the happiest guy in the world!!!
Just call him, or go over to his house or whatever. . . .and tell him you wanna be with him!!!!
2007-06-23 08:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Enough said. Like I've mentioned to people many times, you can't hint anything to guys. You tell him, 'I really like you and I want to be with you when I go up to Atlanta.' Or if you want to be more passive, kind of poke around to see how he feels about you and him being together the nights you slept together or spent hanging out. Get an idea of how much he likes you and that will determine how you tell him. Guys don't like if you come on too heavy, too fast.
2007-06-23 08:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ava-Marie Germaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or you could just tell him that you are actually moving to Atlanta for a job as well and that you should probably get an apartment together.
2007-06-23 08:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At yalls age I think it is young it sounds like you hung out had fun and landed in the bedroom. If you really like him you need to tell him immediatly, or it will hurt for you. If you move to Atlanta you better have another reason in case this man isnt what u are hoping for. Believe me, this sounds like yall had a good time and move on. I know it hurts and will for a while. I hope he is madly in love with you but from experience it sounds like he loves you as a freind. But, your telling him how you feel could florish into a wonderful love afair. Ah to be young again.
2007-06-23 08:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nows not the time for a woman, with his new career move, he'll have to make some new coworker friends, find some local hobbies, recreational soccer is big in atlanta. and theres new clubs and such with new girls. I would spend your time remodeling or planting.
2007-06-23 08:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont mean to sound...... yuck about this but, you should have really thought about that before you slept with him. Sorry . Come right out! Tell him that you like him and want to be with him and all and see what he says. Tell him you are trying to transfer. Good Luck!!! Get'em before another chick does!!
2007-06-23 08:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by tricka_420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be like I like you and enjoy hanging out with you. If he doesnt catch on to that cue, then let it go. Maybe he aint interested the same way.
2007-06-23 08:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel.
wait until you're transfered to atlanta, and let him know that you'd like to be with him.
it's simple.
2007-06-23 08:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by cait <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you see him againg and have been hanging with him for a while and slept with him myb once or twice, ask him if he thinks you guys should be seriouse with each other and start dating
2007-06-23 08:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by mike s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, With a smile on our face just honestly and lovingly open your heart ! I will pray for you !
2007-06-23 08:09:36 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋