ok when i was little i think i was molested this boys told me to pull down my pants and he touched my private, he told me to toiuch his, then girl dragged me in to the bath room and she took her clothes off. wwith that boys he touched me many times. on the school bus this other boy pulled down my pants and licked my private this is when i was little
now im 13, im looking pron of girls and boys on the internet. im a girl. why im a doing this help! i dont whats wrong plz someone help me
2007-06-23 07:54:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, know that you are not alone in this situation. There are many others who have experienced what you've gone through. You were introduced to sex at a very early age and you have been trying to deal with it until now. Cheer up! Nothing's wrong with you. In fact, it is great that you recognize that there might be a problem. So, if you believe you really need help as to how to deal with your feelings ( because these feelings affect your relationship with friends, family and other people ) or a sense of guilt for what you're doing, seek the guidance of your school or private psychologist.
2007-06-30 20:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by shirley g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing "wrong" with you.
When we've been sexually stimulated at an early age, we tend to be more drawn to sexual images and behaviors later on.
At thirteen, all humans become more curious about sexual activity. Right now, looking at those pictures is a way of satisfying that curiosity.
However, while there is nothing wrong with you, you should probably talk to a trained therapist who specializes in sexual abuse. The experiences you've had have obviously bothered you, and it's important to work through any negative feelings about yourself or those experiences before you reach an age at which you will need to make choices important to your future.
2007-07-01 13:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mattie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, well thank god you came out with this now most women fail in relationships most of their life and feel awkward in sexually situations and allow themselves to be abused before telling someone that they have been molested. According to my therapist anyway.
I woundn't jump to porn try looking up informational pieces about sex and the human form to get a better understanding of it.
Confide in one of your parents, school counslers can really suck, it's better to leave the school out of the situation they can end up causing more problems in the long run trust me on that.
Most insurances cover therapy it is nothing to be ashamed of it is a very usefull cooping tool. And, if you only think that you may have been molsested then talking it out may jog your memory.
Please dont keep this bottled up, if you really feel that you cant talk to your parents please email me, I've been were you are, I just delt with it sooner.
Xoxo
2007-07-01 00:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Kris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really hard thing to go through, but you are not alone. Things like this happen every day. Unfortunately more people aren't as brave as you are to come forward and talk about it. It can become a problem in life for you if you don't take control of it now. You need to identify with your feelings, talk to a professional, and move passed it. you can contact me if you need to talk.
2007-07-01 12:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just need someone (like a bf) to be there for you . just go out and hang out with friends and have fun like a 13 yr old should and wiht what happened when you were little talk to soemone you can trust or to the school counselor or tell your mom you want to talk to a therapist and if she asks why tell her its nothing serious but after you talk to the therapist you might be able to open up to her. just go out and try to get your mind off of the porn . good luck =]
2007-06-30 22:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by riskybusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off don't be so hard on yourself it takes guts to say what you just did, if you are afraid to talk to your parents right now at least speak to a school counselor. what happened when you were young was not your fault sounds like your dealing with that good
2007-07-01 04:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by leah j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if watching porn bothers you so much stop looking at it. Then talk to the school counselor so that you can get past your past.
2007-07-01 13:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Claudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to Shirley G.
2007-07-01 05:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by crewbrotha86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do need someone to talk to talk to someone at school and see if they know of a teen talk line.
2007-07-01 13:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by LDJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to talk to someboy ,you sound scared and alone.you have to lrt somebody help you.Its not your fault.
2007-07-01 14:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by neesha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋