There is this guy that I think likes me, but I like his best friend, but his best friend said no to me when I asked him out, and now I dont know what to do, because I want to know if he really does like me. Ok, Well Should I ask him if he likes me? I mean he has been weird around me lately. He is just going around trying to ask me if I am having a good day, then he trys to hug me. It is really weird. Look, I have never had a b/f before, so I dont know exactly how to tell . . . What should I do? BTW, I am only 13.
2007-06-23 07:47:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey i know how you feel! omg! if you like this guy that's crushing on you then ask him if he likes you, but if you don't like him, ignore the dude...they hate that, but they get the point!
2007-06-23 07:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ali 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you are only 13. You should probably wait and just ask him if he likes you. If he says yes tell him well lets just stay friends and see what happens next year. So be with him if that is what the both of you want but dont do the b/f / g/f kinda stuff. That is the best I can offer. Hope it helps.
2007-06-23 14:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by tricka_420 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you. Dont ask me why, but guys have a weird way of showing their feelings when they are young (im 13 too and the same thing happened to me). Be brave and approach him. One of my best guy friends got approached by a girl asking if he liked her and they have been going out for almost a year. The worst that could happen is he says no, but to me it is better to be rejected and know the truth then to live your life wondering if he really did like you. Good luck! :)
2007-06-23 14:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by #10♥Eli Manning....my hero☺ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Tell him you don't want to be hugged if it makes you feel uncomfortable.
Why is he doing it? My guess is he likes you and is attracted to you but doesn't have a clue how you feel and is scared silly that he will do something dumb.
Keep him as a friend and maybe a b/f in 3 or 4 years and after that...?? marriage, sex, kids.... in that order.
Enjoy being a kid first life is too short to throw part of it away and try and grow up fast. I've seen lots of "kids" only 2 or 3 years older than you that because of a stupid mistake now have a baby or caught something they are stuck with the rest of their lives.
Grow up at your pace, get a good education and grow up well. It is each persons choice how they grow up regardless of their situations! I would add believe in God and follow Jesus as my personal opinion too but God let us all make our own choices so try and make them well.
Todd
2007-06-23 14:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by Pilgrim in the land of the lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i think you better wait to be sixteen . If it s going to happen you´ll meet a good guy the right one, i in the right moment. But now, you don t have things clear yet and no experience. So try to meet boys, know them as persons. And be careful not to be deceived by any of those flirt. Of course you are going to like to many guys, but take your time to meet well them and know who you are dealing with.
2007-06-23 15:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by nikkita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Just go on about your life. You are only 13. If he likes you he will let you know. Remember this. If you let a guy know you like him alot he will blow you off, but if you act like you don't care, then they will want to be around you. Strange , huh? But I have had enough experience to know this is true.
2007-06-23 14:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by southg11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you go out with the guy that you think likes you, you might find out something you like about him. Or you can invite him and some of your friends over to play Truth Or Dare and you (or you can get one of your friends to ask him) if he likes you.
2007-06-23 14:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you're a little young to worry about that. Just try to be friends to both of them.
The "true" one will stand out in time. (Or maybe someone else will come a long.)
Go to a movie with both of them & invite a girl friend with you... make it like a "double" date... but don't get into who's with whom bit! That will just make it worse.
Just go out & be friends! :)
Good luck! :)
2007-06-23 14:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Harley99 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it kinda seems like the best friend likes you, but doesn't wanna offend his friend.
And you're 13 - why the rush?
2007-06-23 14:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by DarlaTremere 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Star, Darlin this is eternal advice ! Be honest and direct and you will live happily ever after.Accept Jesus as our lord and savior into your heart ! You will live happily ever after in heaven. I hope to see you there.
2007-06-23 15:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋