I wasn't spending time with my sister like I should have been, so my fiance and I decided to take Saturday mornings and Tuesday nights to ourselves so I could spend time with my sister and he could spend time with his friends. They all like to play World of Warcraft.
Well, it didn't work out right. He spends time with his friends like we agreed to, but instead of my sister spending time with me, she plays World of Warcraft with them! So here I am with nobody to hang out with (my sister is my best friend). They are all 65 +. My character is too low level to do anything.
I feel left out and alone. He got things his way, but I'm screwed.
2007-06-23 07:10:28 · 17 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I play too, but my sister was without a job for months and had all the time in the world to play. My fiance is really into it and he would stay up as late as possible to play. He also could play at work.
I got discouraged from trying to level. We were on alliance and my sister helped me get to 40 so we could do dungeons together. Then after I got there, my fiance wanted us to change to horde. So then I had to start all over again and I did a different character that time, a hunter. I didn't like it as much, so I started over on a paladin again. It's at 41 now, but it would take too long to get caught up to their characters. I'm not good at leveling. My fiance says he'll help me level, but it hasn't happened.
2007-06-23 07:23:07 · update #1
if you can't beat em join em.
take some time to level up your character.
you can't expect to be in control of how the people around you entertain themselves.
I know it makes you feel lonely ignored and empty, but you've got to try not take it so personally.
maybe instead of playing in the game, sit along side her and talk to her as she plays. You could be the ANTI cheerleader yelling out threats for her directed to the other players.
2007-06-23 07:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your sister how you feel. I think it's better to plan what you're going to do with someone beforehand. That way she might have come over to your place and the two of you could have just headed out the door to go do something-drinks, a movie, museum, whatever. Did your sister know that she was coming over to spend time with you, like it was something planned in advance? Or did she just think "I'm stopping by for a couple minutes to say hello..." The latter would explain the confusion. Tell her you wanted to spend time with HER not with the video game. Actually you are paying her a HUGE compliment by saying that. She'll get that you weren't happy and you can plan something to do soon, just the two of you so you get a chance to talk and do something interesting.
2007-06-23 14:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by norton2628 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister that you thought she wanted to spend time with you, not hanging with your boyfriend and his buddies. Think of some things you and your sis could go do together and offer those suggestions. If she turns you down and would rather play games, call it off. Tell boyfriend that the arrangement isn't working and that you want more time with him again. Have ideas ready of things the two of you could go do.
It could be that sis wasn't wanting your company as much as she was feeling excluded by your relationship with your boyfriend. That's immature on her part. If she felt left out, she should have gone and found other things to do with her own group of friends so that she could feel included there. It could be that sis has some growing up to do.
2007-06-23 14:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by Annie D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, why don't you play with them? Or, if you really don't like the game, you could suggest to do something else like go out to eat. It would give you a chance to meet his friends and hang out with them. But, if you really don't want to hang out with them. You should talk to your sister about how this all makes you feel! She is your best friend, she would understand your feelings and respect the way you think about everything.
2007-06-23 14:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by sportsy7chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i was you i would talk to your sister and let her know how you feel as i'm sure that she wouldn't want to hurt you. maybe you could do something with her on one of those days then the other one she could spend with them.
2007-06-23 14:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by LUCY M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should get ur old high school friends and go hangout sme where....or u can go shopping alone or go to the salon get ur hair make up done then ur fiance wana hang out with u
2007-06-23 14:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by shahreenxoxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-06-23 14:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you are just gonna have to play more without them until you reach their level. If you can't catch up them tell your sister that you really want to spend time with her. I dunno about your sister, but my sister would certainly understand. Good luck.
2007-06-23 14:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by from_a_dark_place 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your sister about the problem and tell her how you feel.
Its your time with her and you want to spend it with her thats all.
Hope this helps
2007-06-23 14:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should use the time you have together and he can help you advance you character ^^
2007-06-23 14:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋