Okay. Long story short. My boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 mo's. We get along great,make each other laugh,good conversationetc.. We have a great sex life, very cant keep our hands of each other. -----Today he went to work, i slept in. I went online to check my e-mail and fine i looked at his history, i know that not the trusting thing to do but at least i wasnt digging through his drawers, anyway the boy looks at porn EVERYDAY. An average of about 15 sites a day. Videos,stories,personals, everything.Porn, even on days that i must have just left him after having sex. I am a little weirded out, I must say. I can admit that i have never seen him go to the sites and it hasnt hindered with anytime we spend together. Just kinda weirded me out. Is that okay? That much porn? What does it mean when you have "successful" sex with your girlfriend and when she leaves you go to the porn?
2007-06-23 06:39:07 · 12 answers · asked by paisley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's quite normal for guys and really isn't dependent upon how things are going with their girlfriend. Most guys enjoy looking at porn- a small percentage don't, and that's fine too.
While 15 sites is bit excessive, I doubt that's the story EVERY day.. Also when browsing those types of sites, one links to another and popups appear- much more often than other types of web surfing. So before you know it- you've gone through a dozen sites without even trying. It's kind of like watching commercials or funny clips on youtube.
But I would say don't be overly concerned- looking is pretty harmless- a problem would be if he was actually running around trying to get sexually involved with other women while being in a commited relationship with you.
2007-06-24 10:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Proto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-20 12:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Freda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look ! I think the problem's with u ! Why do U feel seeing porn is a crime like thing ? It's common in 99 % males, although 90 % may not admit. Biologically, the sexual body is always up for new challenges , whether physically or mentally. It's a fact of life u can't omit ! U should be grateful that ur Boyfriend goes for porn to overcome this sexual clock & not for another girl as is common for most !
2007-06-23 06:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by sin_anirban 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If the two of you see nothing wrong with having sex outside of marriage. Then how can him watching porn be bad?
He is not having relationships with other women. He is only looking at pictures of naked women. Which some people say is an immoral thing to do. But such people usually say that having sex outside of marriage is also immoral.
If you believe that people should have sexual freedom. Then watching porn is a part of that sexual freedom. Or else it's not much freedom at all.
2007-06-23 09:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. 25 years ago and more when child porn was legal people wouldn't have blinked an eye about child porn
2016-05-18 03:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just plain wrong on his part, if he really loves and respects what you both have together, he shouldn't need porn, even more after sex! I have been with my girlfriend for a year and a half now and we have not had sex and i still DON'T look at porn. i look at it as a respect issue, if he really cares and loves you then he shouldn't need that crap. if you can, try to casually bring it up and see what he has to say because that is completely uncalled for!!
2007-06-23 06:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by family man 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I've heard it's pretty normal for guys to do that. Wouldn't you have felt worse if he was only into that and not into you? Try asking him about it- without sounding too judgemental and nagging.
2007-06-23 06:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by shania 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is young and we like that sort of stuff... it normal...enjoy the ideas he gets from it don't you??
If still doin it when you got kids and stuff ...oh dear...well if it's 15 times a day
2007-06-23 06:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not this is actually a really big problem. If he has been looking at for awhile he may not know the difference between the real thing and whats fake anymore. sorry :/
2007-06-23 06:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley B 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2007-06-23 06:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by aryan 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋