Girls, say u were realllllllll shy.
and u found out a guy liked you, but u don't like him.
would u still look at him alot?
2007-06-23 05:50:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope it would lead him on and its unfair so try not to look at him. either that or get the message to him that you are not interested NICELY
2007-06-23 05:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by boxer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I don't know how old you are, but it sounds like you might need to get the word out to him and let him know you are not interested. You don't need to feel weird about looking at him.
Appreciate the fact that this guys finds you to be the beautiful young lady that you are. Relish the moments! There is nothing wrong with that. Smile at him and let him know ...though you are flattered, you are not interested at this time.
He will appreciate the honesty... and you can enjoy the glances! :)
2007-06-23 12:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouln't mind looking at him but that probably still wounl't change my mind about him. If I had never had a boyfriend though I probably would want to go out with him just to say I had a bf
2007-06-23 12:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by Cheer Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I'm not really shy but I used to be. Basically if I like a guy I look at him.
I'm evil so I will flirt with a guy that I don't like if I know that he likes me. So yeah, I will look at him.
This girl that you are talking about may be self-concious now that she nows this guy (you?) likes her since she is shy. She may be looking at him to see if he is looking at her.
Are you sure she doesn't like him?
2007-06-23 12:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question tells me that you 12 or something.
anyway, your saying that you like a shy girl and she said no but looks at you so you wanna know if theres hope. well im going to say yes. she's shy so maybe thats why she said no. but see get her to open up and stuff. be friends with her first, get to know her. when she feels comfortable with you, then she'll tell you openly. be strong kid!
2007-06-23 13:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy
and i can answer that
cuz its so easy
if there is no attraction,
if the girl doesnt feel attracted to the guy
she wont pay attention to him
maybe shell feel sorry and perhaps feel pity for the guy
but she wont feel the same.
2007-06-23 12:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by nickname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What grade are we in here. No I would not unless I thought he needed to be watched (like a perv). Smile, be normal. Are you sure she doesn't like you. Step up talk to her, wouldn't get serious though, talk about going to lunch, not hooking up.
2007-06-23 12:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course i would! just because i found out about his feelings for me i wouldnt just suddenly stop being nice and friendly with him. it just means that he had the guts to tell me or to in some way let me know. i would be happy! hope this helps!
2007-06-23 12:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by live laugh love♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me before. And i did. I wanted to find out if his love for me was real. And not short-lived.
2007-06-23 12:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by DARLING. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really.. but if im shy i would be curious to kno if hes really into me. .and if he looks at me from time to time.. and y did he come up to me. .and so on. but in the end.. if shes shy> then how would u kno that she doenst like u... mayb she does.. but isnt confident to tell u ;)
2007-06-23 12:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋