I have been going out with a guy who are sexually compatible, enjoys each other's company, nice guy for about 2 months. I see him everyday and when he is with me everyday, I can feel he likes me a lot.
Not too long ago, I suspected that he's interested in my best friend who is pretty (he met her once). In the beggining, I thought he was nice to her and he likes her because she is my friend. But he asked me to bring her out when we are together a few times, and one time he asked me to ask her to sleep over at my house and maybe he will stop by to hang out with us. When I said no, he asked two more times.
Now, I am very hurt because I like him a lot and it seems he is interested in spending time with her, not just with me.
I contronted him and he told me it's not he is interested in her but he sometimes want our friends join our company, not just us all the time. And his friends are married with kids and not easy to make time to come out with us.Am I over reacting? or is he a dog?
2007-06-23 05:46:00 · 12 answers · asked by whattodo898 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure. I think you might be over reacting. One of my boyfriend's friend is a guy, and I like him a lot, but only as a friend. We always talk even with out my boyfriend around and none of us think of it as a big deal. It's just nice having a friend of the opposite sex who isn't your boyfriend because it's nice to get advice from them.
2007-06-23 05:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Bats 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's a dog, as soon as the opportunity comes for him to sleep with her he will. No man is going to ask you to invite your friend over to spend the night and then he'll drop buy, that's like setting him up to make advances at your friend. If you continue to be friends and this turns into a relationship he will definitely cheat on you. He can't even stand to meet a beautiful friend without being turned on what will happen if he meets a beautiful stranger. I know hes nice but girl that's how the all are in the beginning until you find out their no good lying dogs. Be smart let him go right now before he ruins your friendship and your life ,as I always say there are plenty of good men out there , one will find you one day.
2007-06-23 12:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by A Friend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is okay for you to bring your friend sometimes but if I were your friend I would feel kind of weird with my bestfriend and her boyfriend. If she is confortable with it though than you should deffinatly ask her to come sometimes.
However you and your boyfriend should be spending some alone time to together so maybe you should plan a night at your house as a suprise or something and have it just be you to. That's what I would say.
2007-06-23 12:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by Cheer Babe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all how old r u lot if his friends r married, u shouldnt be having sleep overs. Yes he sounds like a stupid dog
2007-06-23 12:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky question because the same thing happened to me with my ex. But he took it farther than that. He would always tell me that my best friend was hot. One day me and my best friend got into a fight and she told me that them two had sex and that he was cheating on me with her for 2 months. I broke up with him and stopped being friends with her. its been over a year since i broke up with him and hes still trying to get with me because he says he was just f*cuking her. Ever since then i dont trust any girls with my bf excpet my mother sister and his family. i['m not saying your best friend is going to do anything with him but im saying u never know. Let him know that your uncomfortable with him saying that.
2007-06-23 12:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not over reacting and yes he most definately sounds like a dog and I would not give him the time of day . good luck .
2007-06-23 12:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personal opinion: it appears readily obvious your guy is simply using you as a conduit to get to your friend. Your friend must be very loyal to you as it doesn't appear he can make any progress with her WITHOUT your assistance! Get rid of this clown and I'd be willing to bet neither you or your "pretty friend" will regret it!
2007-06-23 12:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. If he hasn't done anything thing to make a move on her than nothing is wrong.
2007-06-23 12:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by violachic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i'm sure you have more than one friend right? if he doesn't do that to your other friends then yeah, you are not over reacting
2007-06-23 12:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by Matahari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are over reacting!
If he shows you that he loves you and cares for you dont worry!
2007-06-23 12:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by Pop~Tart 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋