if ur husband is 26 older than u an has kis teenage kids an there not to fod of u how do u get along?

Answer 1

Can you rephrase the questiona little, I can't understand some parts of it.

Answer 2

You didnt say how old you are. If youre about the age of his children, then yes, I can totally understand their disapproval. Its hard for any child to accept a new member into their family in the event of death, divorce, whatever. But its even harder if the new member is around the same age. Im not sure what to do in your situation, but I do know that my kids are much more important than any man I have ever gone out with, and if they dont like him for whatever reason, hes history. My children and their happiness is far more important. Its interesting to note however, that I have never encountered any problems in this area. I guess I talked with them enough after my divorce that they are very well adjusted to the idea while still maintaining a great rapport with Dad.

Answer 3

"If your husband is 26 (years?) older than you and his teenage kids are not too fond of you, how do you get along"

I think that is what you are asking, correct?

If you are - please note that 'the teenage' years are years where people start to note their individuality, and will try to be themselves, in every way possible.
This will mean "disliking" people on sight, not necessarily for real, but they will act as such.

You should ask your husband if they really dislike you, or that it is part of their "teenage" act. Do this when they are not around, and also not likely to unexpectedly drop in on the conversation.

I do wonder, if your age difference is really 26 years, how you make it work. You must run in to a lot of "talking neighbors" or dissapproving looks from people - how do you handle such pressure?

Answer 4

if i understand you correctly, your saying your husband is 26 years older than you and his children do not like you am i right?? if that is the case it is not going to be easy to get them to change their minds! all you can do is try to show them that you are with their father out of love not because of money! they could be against you for so many reasons! you could try talking to them and find exactly why they do not like you, teenagers are hard to please and probably would not like you what ever your age, especially if your the first women your husband has been serious with since their mother! all you can do is be patient and try not to isolate them from their father! and encourage him to spend time alone with his children, but at the same time take an interest in the children but not try to be too forceful or play mom! they will not be teenagers for long and as they grow older and have their own relationships things may change.

Answer 5

Nothing. Ignore it, they will get over it eventually. They are teens, all teens are like that. Kill them with kindness. But don't try to over compensate by buying them whole bunches of stuff to get on their good side. It wont work, and you will end up hurt. Just talk to them and your husband and make sure they know where you stand. You are his wife and need to be respected. The father needs to have a talk with his children.

Answer 6

Teenage kids don't get along with anyone! So, don't take it personally. Just try to let them have their father. That's a tough age, and they need to know that they're not competing for their father's love.

Answer 7

Run down the street naked pulling your hair out with both hands screeming oh lord, oh lord, why me?

Answer 8

There is no love in the relationship, it's only physical and emotional attraction.

It will not succeed.

Answer 9

don't be demanding and let nature take its course. and definatly don't make it seem like you're going out of your way all the time.. b/c then they don't need you as much.

Answer 10

Dont understand the question-try spellcheck?