we had an argument and he asked his wife to come back. now i think he regrets it but she will be here next week. what should i do? cut all ties or just be his friend cuz i did care or still do a little. im hurt but just hiding it and trying not to think about it to much. i know ill miss him cuz when i look at him it reminds me of what we cant do anymore. plz help. he is sleep right now on my couch. why is this? i need advice. or should i just never have anything else to do with him once he leaves. i really think he knows he made a decision on something he really didnt want to do. he has the kids and asked her back home. but he is on my couch. less then one week she'll be here.
2007-06-23 00:39:23 · 8 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This could be a learning situation for you. When you accept a situation and shack up with someone (married or not) you are accepting a TEMPORARY situation for your own selfish reasons.
You should examine your situation and the circumstances and feelings that led you into this situation.
In any case, you should move on.
2007-06-23 00:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA, I understand how hard it's going to be for you, but do your best to leave him alone. He still has feelings for her, I don't know the whole his-story, but if he is married there was a lot of something for him to have taken that step and then he still talks to her hmm. Try looking for a single guy that doesn't have any strings and will spear you the drama of having to deal the "first "ex" love"
2007-06-23 07:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by thisisme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never have anything to do with him again. Start right now, get him off that couch and send him out the door.
2007-06-23 07:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, please have more respect for yourself than to want a man who is on your couch while asking his wife to come home. he is playing both of you. It is good that you did not get with him while his wife was at home, and I am sure he said things to you to make you believe that it was over with them. as you can see, it's not. kick his sorry butt off your couch and find someone to cherish you and treat you like you deserve. do you really want a guy that would do this to you, and someone else - she is the mother of his kids, and he has no respect for that or for you.
2007-06-23 07:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Relationships like this bring pain. If the two of you are meant to be together, he needs to end his old situation completely first. I know from experience it will probably get worse before it gets better. You need to look out for you and let him look out for himself right now.
2007-06-23 07:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Blessed1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Why did you love someone's husband? Dont you know that is a very cheap thing to play with another girl's life?
When you get married and some other girl loved your husband how will you feel? Miserable, Isnt it?
HENCE PLEAS DO NOT SPOIL ANOTHER GIRLS LIFE.
IF YOU DO GOD WILL GIVE YOU ALSO THE SAME PAIN.
OKEY?
2007-06-23 07:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by abina s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is confused, you need to get on with your life, and out of his
2007-06-23 07:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by txcatwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh. Simple- leave him. He's not worth the trouble. Move on- and do it right away- don't fight it or delay! Be smart for a change... my goodness...
2007-06-23 07:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jonathan Rich 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋