He treated you like a queen; He lets you have your way all the time, is so sweet and sensitive, would never do ANYTHING to hurt you, and is all around pretty much the greatest guy you think you will ever meet. Imagine its been a long term very loving relationship of about three years. But he had inappropriate conversation online with a girl about two years ago, and it was pretty upsetting to you! Then you found out he touched this girl inapropriatly as well, two years ago, but you believed her when she told you that she did not want it and he was convincing her to let him touch her. Now your boyfriend texts a completely different girl that you're jealous of, and deletes the messages from his inbox and outbox because he knows you look. It is pretty suspicious, but you do not think this girl is interested in him AT ALL.
Would you stay with him? What do you think?
2007-06-22 18:41:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously he is not the sweet, sensitive guy you once knew..
Time to move on hun...... You will only get more hurt if you stay.. He has left you enough hints now that he is moving on...So should you...
2007-06-22 18:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Rebel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE. Mainly because you don't trust him. Relationships are not worth the stress if you don't have trust. You have to check his text messages? He knows it, so he cleans up his dirty work before you find it? WTF?? You guys are just playing games. Stop worrying about the girls he messes around with...if she wanted it or didn't etc. It doesn't matter. It's him you need to be concerned with. If he tries one girl who doesn't want him, he'll keep looking until he finds one who does. Leave the loser and move on. You'll be SOOO glad later.
2007-06-23 01:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by moodymomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a cheater, you want some one who will ask you to marry him and have him be committed to only you.
2007-06-23 01:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him straight up about this girl. and if he lies just take notice of his reaction
i would give him 1 more chance. but only 1... remember that
2007-06-23 01:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't committed to you body and soul after 3yrs, he's not going to. Move along.
2007-06-23 01:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN! he is a player. you deserve better than a guy who is inappropriate with other girls. have some respect for yourself. move on, please.
2007-06-23 01:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by ldgirlz11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't stay with cheaters.
2007-06-23 01:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave him. he is a cheater. you can do better
2007-06-23 01:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋