long distance...?

Question

okay so my fiance is moving away and I won't be able to move near him for another year... we aren't breaking up like other people do when they have the long distance thing....

Does anyone have any suggestions as to what will make the year easier? Please help...

Answer 1

I dated a man for 5 years who lived in another state for 9 months out of the year and where I live for 3 months. Truly it was the best relationship I have ever had. We spoke everyday, sent letters, shared feelings and stories about what was going on in our lives. Told each other things that we would never tell anyone else. And the three months that we were together, were absolutely wonderful. 25 years latter we are still wonderful friends and can still talk to each other and tell each other anything, without judging. The thing about long distance relationships is that you actually have to verbally communicate. That is something that sort of gets set aside when you are together, b/c of physical activity. However, I would not have missed it for the world, and even though we are married to different people, we still care very very much about each other and would do anything for each other. A relationship built upon communication, trust, respect and friendship. Intimacy comes from knowing the other person, and the more you know them, and yes their flaws, the more intimate you can become and trust them with anything,
Good luck to you and don't give up, the distance may actually improve the relationship.

Answer 2

Well you two could talk on the phone everyday, that keeps the relationship up-to-date. It will also make you feel less lonely without him there with you. I am in a long-distance relationship and it really hard, but you can get through with it. You could send him a care package every once in a while with some cookies, a small present he's been wanting, an I miss you card, some hot pics of yourself. You can put whatever you want in it. That is really sweet, my boyfriend loves when I send him those. You should also plan out as many dates as you can. Well I hope I helped, hang in there girl, you can do it!

Answer 3

Send lots of letters, and e-mails. Make some of the letters red hot sexy. Tell him the things you like to do to him, and the things you'd like him to do to you.

Call often and visit as often as possible.

When my wife and I were courting, in pre-Internet days, some of my letters cost over a dollar to mail and postage was under 30 cents per ounce.

Unfortunately, there is no easy way to carry on a long distance romance. Good luck to both of you.

Doc

Answer 4

talk on the phone all night telling each other sweet things
and try to visit everytime its possible and when yall see each other you all will be happy to see each other... trust me

Answer 5

youll jsut have to talk on the phone, thats what im doing.