Am I right or wrong?

Question

I feel left out because There are like no (recent)movies or TV shows that tell a story about kids with hard lives with abusive parents or alcholic parents, etc. Like its all about perfect kids/teens living perfect lives. Am I right to feel frustrated to feel mad and left out and stuff or am I wrong?
Why or why not?

Look, My parent was abusive and I am certinly not emo. I am a figure skater who loves twinky little outfits and I'm a dancer. I just would like to see a show that relates to me...

Mental health- how I feel mentaly..

Answer 1

I COMPLETELY AGREE!!!!!!!!!!!! I think it's about time that we show what really happens in actual people's lives.

Answer 2

Well, I believe that what they put on TV and in the movies is what people want to see, that's what makes the money and keeps their ratings up. Abuse, neglect, disfunctional families.......that's what you see on the news (and Jerry Springer). People don't want to see that, it's not entertaining. What is pictured on screen is hardly typical of anyone's real life. I do understand where you're coming from, I've been there myself. There are far more of us out there than anyone realizes. We are the silent victims of domestic violence, alcohol or substance abuse, and consequently, child abuse. Please don't feel left out, you are in very good company. You have every right to feel frustrated and angry. Don't feel alone though, you're not. We have lived in shame, quietly, screaming inside where nobody hears us cry. Nobody feels our pain. Just make sure you live you life the very best you can, be the best person you can be, and be proud of who YOU are. You can't change what was, but you can make a bright future for yourself and if you choose to, for a family. Perhaps there should be a new movie made about families in crisis, something to jolt the public awarness once again. Believe me, most families are not like those portrayed on TV. There are no "perfect" families. Some have more problems than others, of course. People want to come home, relax, and enjoy a show, and there's nothing enjoyable about what we have had to endure. I think that's why.

Answer 3

No you're not wrong. I think people would just rather look at happy perfect little lives than face reality sometimes. But just because there aren't any recent movies about it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

Anyway, if you happen to be looking for a movie like that you should see "Manic". It's a really good movie. Circa 2003 I think. So not super recent but close. It's about this teenager in a mental institution because he has anger problems from being abused. You should check it up.

Answer 4

Is a hard life or upbringing different with time? Why does it matter if movies or tv shows are current? Abuse is abuse and the point is to become a physically and mentally healthy individual, not feel vindicated through creative writing played out on screen. You're certainly in your rights to feel frustrated at whatever you choose, but I would suggest taking a look at where tv falls on your list of priorities in getting over such a horrible situation.

Answer 5

I'm not sure that there is a "right" or a "wrong" here. You have made your own observation.

Consider whether the portrayal, approval of, or promotion of family violence or an alcoholic lifestyle should be portrayed.
In what emphasis would be a responsible portrayal? Would violence or substance abuse come out as "normal" "natural" or "just the way it is for kids"? Would the film provide solutions for kids to seek for their families? And, still, would the movie still sell? Believe it or not, movies are made to be moneymakers, bottom line. Sad. Sorry.

I think kids need answers. I think they need hope.

Answer 6

Yes, I can see where your frustration comes in. At the top of my mind I can not think of tv shows or movies that are completely about your topic. I'm sure there are movies, tv shows, and books that have your topic. If you feel frustrated, it might be good to talk to your school counselor about your feelings or start a diary and channel your anger into writing.

Humm now that I'm thinking of all the movies, tv shows, books I've seen or read: Pay It Forward (movie), Angela's Ashes (movie & book), Freedom Writers (book & movie), Coach Carter (movie), The OC (tv show), Dog Hound (movie not out yet), Law & Order (SVU)...thats all I can think of.

Answer 7

Wait, you want to know if you feel right that you are mad that there are no shows that relate to your situation? Well, I would suggest watching Law and Order, they have children that have abusive parents sometimes. Maybe you should make your OWN tv show that relates to your situation.

Answer 8

1- Why is this in health?
2- no thats your oppinion ive heard alot of people ask this, peopel like watching nice kids instead of emo kids with problems, unless its not about them and theyre just there for the drama.