I'm in love. Oooh shaocking reality isnt it? Oh and i have some more news for you. It hurts. I guess mainly because he doesnt love me. But still, i dont get WHY it has to hurt soooo much. Not only that I'm missing him to DEATH. No, i am not dramatic. Seriously, it hurts so much, and i was wondering, if anyone knows, WHY DOES IT HAVE TO HURT SO MUCH!?!?!?!
2007-06-22 16:39:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It hurts because you let it. You have to realize you're in control of your emotions.
2007-06-26 08:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To love someone means that you basically can depart from that person. You want to be with that person every second, minute, hour, and day. But when the person you love leaves or doesn't correspond to your love it hurts so much. Because you feel lost without them u are use to having that person there. It hurts worser when you know that a person doesn't correspond to what you feel for them. So basically you feel that you can break down crying, but love will hurt, but you have to be stronger. Because in life people will fall in love many times, and the heart will get hurt plenty. But, we have to learn to heal our own wounds and become stronger and understand that love hurts.
2007-06-23 00:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Latina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard question to answer. I believe everyone goes thru this at least once in their life. But the only advise that I can give is to stand strong, and hold your head up high!!! SOmething good will come to those who wait!! TIme will heal all pain!!
Hang in there!!!
2007-06-22 23:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain as i type this! But its bad for me, because its my best friend! You'll get over it, we'll do it together, lol. But don't think that there is something wrong with you! I've been down that road and on my way up it. It's not cute. Keep your head up in these trying times! You'll make it!
miss *Snoopy
2007-06-22 23:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by LilSnoopyGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw you need a big hug *hug*
girl, you are beautiful and yet he rejects you. he may be your type but you might not be his... my advice for you may sting a bit but you have to move on. drowning in this emotion is going to do u nothing but bad and bring you into a deeper lvl of hell. i belive that there is a person for everyone but they just have to work and search for that someone.
it may hurt alot cause well, ur too emotionally attached to him. tie the string a little looser and think about someone else. move a little. ur true love may be waitting for you somewhere that is not so close to you
2007-06-23 01:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by em0grl4evah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you love him. I feel your pain. The worst is when they say no. It's like you're hit in the face with a sack of bricks or something. I'm sorry I can't help...
2007-06-22 23:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts so mcuh cause u loved him n u tryed to tell him but there was something he always came up with so it was hard for u n u tried harder u really did but he couldn't c it n he meant no harm to ur heart he just wasn't ready for u that's hwo he kept it real real hard
2007-06-22 23:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by mayemerald4ev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its biblical believe it or notl The bible says "love is the greatest of all of these" Its the most powerful emotion mentioned in the bible.
2007-06-22 23:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm..myb because you're willing to do anything for him and he don't want to have anything with you.emm..it really hurt,i know...but as time goes by,if you can't forget him,you'll get used to this feeling.
2007-06-23 00:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by i^am^me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u feel there is an imbalance
2007-06-22 23:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋